He broke up with me, now flirts with my best friend, and stares at me to see if I'm paying attention to him. We used to be best friends before we started dating and now he is being a total jerk for no reason. I also try to be nice but he doesn't care. I told him that we werent friends and only said it was my decision and wasn't going to change my mind about it. What could that mean really? Does that mean he's trying to hide the feelings that he still has for me?
2006-12-02 06:21:21 · 5 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds like a situation very similar to mine. When I got dumped, I instantly went into defense mode. Don't get me wrong. I was crushed...truly heartbroken. Point being, I was doing the exact same things that your ex is doing. I would go out on the town, knowing that I would run into my ex. I would wear very provocative clothing, flirt with friends, be a snob in their presence, etc. I may have given off the appearance that I was fine and comfortable in my new single status, but I really was still in love with my ex. Maybe your guy is missing you hardcore and is acting this way in defense? Try writing him a letter expressing all of your feelings and whatnot. Hopefully it will give you a little closure OR ignite the fire of your relationship again.
2006-12-02 06:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Maximus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Girl, Move on, He is a jerk! if he is starring at your friend and flirting with her, That is so mean, I don't think he is hiding his feelings. I am not trying to hurt you or be mean,But I really think he is way over your being together. Nobody that loves you will do anything to hurt you, He problem don't care about your or anyone Else's feeling at that. You know what you do find a date and put it in his face. One thing I wanna ask u is, How does your best friend react when he flirts with her? Or get even and have your friend do the same to him what he is doing to you. I was in the same thing when i was younger and i wanted to do that you know do to them what they do to us...just so they know how it feels. But 2 wrongs don't make a right!!!hopefully you take it like it is and get over him he is a loser!!!
2006-12-02 14:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by tonyad143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he want's you back but be-4 he can ask you back he want's to see how far he can go to make you mad so keep your head up and don't let him or your "best friend" get to you find someone NEW!.
2006-12-02 14:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Angel N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe inside he still love you, you should keep yourself busy with your friends and family maybe some day your prince will come alone
2006-12-02 14:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by johnlee1049 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it means he isn't going to make an effort.
2006-12-02 14:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋