well... i think im kinda in love with my best guy friend. him and i have so much fun together and he can always make me laugh. hes also having a party tonite. i dont really know what to do. should i tell him? im afraid it will screw up our friendship. should i tell him tonite or another time? none of my friends know though because another friend likes him too and i really dont want her to be hurt. what do i do?
2006-12-02 06:37:47 · 7 answers · asked by DanceForJoy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are probably in love with him as a friend and now you are thinking about what a great boyfriend he would make. You should only tell him if you are prepared for the drama that will follow. You say he is fun and he makes you laugh, but could you live with him every day? could you get used to him leaving the toilet seat up? is your relationship strong enough for that? If you are as young as you sound also then maybe you need to step back and think about how you are going to confuse the boundaries you and him have and then piss your other friend off as well. Just prioritize what you are looking for and weigh the consequences. good luck
2006-12-02 06:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by xocharlixo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so this sounds kinda complicated lol. K so firstly he your friend but another one of your friends like him??? Well lets just suppose for a bit that you do go out with him and chances are the other friend that like him is going to be rather upset, i mean none of us want out bestfriends to be going out with the guy we really like. So anyway you guys are going out and lets say you guys breakup and it not a very smooth breakup. If this happens you could lose a lot, your girl friend is probably not gonna trust you with who she likes for a while and your friendship might be a lot more awkward, or she might take it more seriously than that and just stop talking to you or she might start spreading rumours or something and as for your guy friend it would probably be really awkward and you might not get along to well. So it depends on what you want, you could end up with him and your friend or him and no friend or neither of them so you have to be careful. Personally i would just stay friends with him and maybe talk to your friend about him so she knows you like him. Hope this helps!
2006-12-02 14:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by cndrll_1613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him,you will screw things up right now. believe me and just trust me. there are certain times for gathering your courage and tell people something but i dont think your situation is one of them,at least right now. so just wait for a while. and dont listen to anyone one who tell you to "just go and tell him"
2006-12-02 14:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOH i was in that like exact same state once (sort-of) and i tis really confusing but seriously--go for it before its too late or you'll regret it! i mean it! tell him tell him! it will never be the same again--jump on your opportunity!
2006-12-02 14:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kendall :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can compete with your other friend or let it go and find someone else.
2006-12-02 14:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him but make sure that your friend is fine with it
2006-12-02 14:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by Courtney M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then you are not in love with him.
2006-12-02 14:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋