My younger brother (age 16) brought home some dark Latino/Asian girl and told me that they were dating. My family is German-American and my family & I don't want latino/indian/black/asian in our family tree. I dont want her seeing my brother. He has blond hair and blue eyes - Thousands of years of evolution and he'd throw it away in a generation.
It's a complete embarassment to my family and me.
And I'm no redneck racist - I'm a Standford Psych undergrad (agnostic).
I will eventually have to break them up.
How can I break them up faster? Should I just talk to that Latino girl in private and tell her to stop seeing my brother? Or should I just tell my brother why dating her is a bad choice? I cant have people of different ethnicities in my family. It's too disgusting and awkward.
She should be sticking with Latino or Asian boys and my brother should be sticking with girls his own ethnicity (white central european).
Your thoughts?
What Should and Could I do?
2006-12-02 06:33:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude like it or not you are a racist just leave them alone and let them deceide what is right for THEM. color age or creed shouldn't matter as long as both people love each other.
2006-12-02 06:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by bcuda27 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Since your a Stanford Psych undergrad you might help him by talking some since to your family about being racist. Oh first tell yourself then your family. Because you are a redneck racist or is it Aryan GET A LIFE leave his alone he sounds normal, which is more than I can say about you and your family. Would your last name be Hitler by chance?
2006-12-02 06:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by Les Gramps 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should consider whether you have any justifiable reason for your actions first. Then ask why are you obessesed with your brother's dating life. Then examine your beliefs to see why you think Latino people are inferior and how you became a racist. Maybe talk to a therapist about this instead of your brother?
2006-12-02 06:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Aren't you the one who is always whining that you CAN'T get a girlfriend. Don't you repeatedly tell us what a loser you are? Not only are you pathetic you are a racist. Leave your brother alone and let him be happy.Are all of your questions just part of a psychology project or are you really that pathetic?
2006-12-02 13:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by gussie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have no clue for I am a Proud Vietnamese German Welsh Scottish English girl the tree has been tainted since my father married my beautiful Vietnamese mother on May 1st 1969 and I have been proud of them and my heritage ever since =)
2006-12-02 06:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you should consider breaking up your racist self first? What bigot.
2006-12-05 17:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by nhk_5 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you stop being so judemental of other people and let your brother date whoever he wants you sick little stupid racist.
2006-12-02 07:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by leged56 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont have a right to tell ur brother who he can date or not just like if u wouldent like it for him to tell u.. just like u want a white girl he wants some flavor in his life.. do u really want him to be unhappy in his life just to stick with someone of his own race,,, come on may be u should try it to i mean trust me u are going to like it and never look back.. hope that ur brother stays with her and if u get on their way he is going to hate u for it...
2006-12-02 06:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Let you brother see who ever he wants to see. You should accept him as he is and not judge him for who he wants to be involved with.
2006-12-02 06:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by dreamer 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
THA IS ABSOLUTELY FRIECKEN HORRIBLE! if your brotherers happy why in the world would you even be so selfish to even think that?! how do you know they're even going to get married or anything serious like that? hes olny 16 for heaven sake! leave them alone!
that is sooo horrible!
2006-12-02 06:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kendall :] 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋