I am a teacher's assistant, who is involved with a teacher @ my school. This is the first time that I've dated from the work place(not first time for him) and I am already having second thoughts about doing so after only 3 months into it. He wants me to spend all of my free time with him. I am very busy with work during the day and full time student during the evening. I am a year or two his senior, so it is not a case of "older teacher taking advantage of young assistant." The thing is I hope that braking it off, doesn't mess up our working relationship. I was reluctant from the start.
2006-12-02 05:33:41 · 7 answers · asked by aprdrn34 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a long talk with him about your worries and be honest that you 2 should break it off for now at least.
2006-12-02 05:36:35 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any work place dating is a risky situation. No matter what happens there is a down side. Three months into it you may already be in for some tough times. Best let it go if you can.
2006-12-02 13:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ranger473 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late not to affect 'working relationship'.
You obviously are not 'on fire' for this guy.
If you are uncomfortable with the relationship, it will take it's toll on you - and be detected by him eventually.
3 months into this - is long enough that there is no easy way to exit.
Hopefully, time would heal any wounds, but will not be forgotten.
Good Luck.
2006-12-02 13:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by ump2please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating at work is a relationship killer besides someone is gonna start a rumor about you or him and it also sounds to me that he needs you a little to much Break it off and go your seperate ways.
2006-12-02 13:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not OK. There's too much of a risk of trouble with the higher-ups if someone finds out. Also, did you come to work to meet men, or to WORK? Prioritize, hon.
2006-12-02 14:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH NO!!! Get out now!!! Or at least change schools. This is a major no no!!! Absolutely unacceptable!!!
2006-12-02 13:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by ascloud@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! and it's even worse to date a neighbor.
2006-12-02 14:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋