My friend thinks that I stole her boyfriend, when she broke up with him, and he asked me out. I don't want to hurt my friend's feelings, what should I do?????
2006-12-02 05:37:23 · 12 answers · asked by Maddie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Seriously, in such situations you really have to see who's more important to you- the friend or the guy.
If she's a good friend then it's kinda off limits to date her ex..
But if your feelings for this guy are really strong and you think there could be something in it then I guess sadly you'll be having a very disillusioned friend atleast in the immediate future. She might forgive and reconcile later but she might not forget it completely.. that'd be rare!
So sit down and think clearly.. friend or guy.. ?
Bless you and bestt of luck!
2006-12-02 05:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anu_K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you went ahead and accepted a date with him...then you are stepping on her toes there. As a rule, when you are close friends you always keep away from anothers ex until an adequate amount of time has passed. Just out of respect. You should definitely at least sit down and talk with her about it. Open ends of communication with friends is always a plus to avoid misunderstandings. good luck to you.
2006-12-02 05:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.ok. sounds like you may want to be slightly on the controlling area. that is why they could blow you off. attempt being there pal instead of telling them you won't be able to smoke and all this stuff. I mean I believe you do not get me incorrect i don't believe of she must be smoking at 12, yet in case you opt for to be associates then you definately ought to except your associates for further efficient or worse.
2016-11-23 12:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by fette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you was a true friend you would of never went with this boy. You should of thought of your friend first. I went threw this with one of my so called best friend. But instead I was married to this man and we have 2 girls today.So if you was any kind of a friend you would of said NO
2006-12-02 09:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the general rule is to not go otu with your best friends ex. why? because it causes trouble like this, and they usually turn out to be a lot like the relationship your friend had, and you saw how that turned out.
2006-12-02 05:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by windspirit33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make a choice
who do you want in your life more him or her?
obviously she is not ok with it, but if you break it off with him now it may be too late anyway tough choice
I just made the same one..... I picked him, and do not regret it at all.... we will be getting married in august
2006-12-02 05:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he really all that? I mean your friendship is something that you'll carry around for a long time, is he. I think not besides why take her leftovers or trow a ways,in this case, when you could have someone fresh. FRIENDSHIP RULES!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-02 05:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by Les Gramps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your friends feelings.
2006-12-02 05:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never date your friends ex boyfriend, no matter what the circumstances of their breakup.
2006-12-02 05:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which is more important?ur friend or her ex?
do u like him that much
theres alot more boys than him,and hes not worth the commotion
2006-12-02 05:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋