so last week, i asked the love of my life to marry me. in the 28 years i have been alive, i have never asked anybody that one question before. here is the catch, when i asked her that question, i wanted her to REALLY think about it, & i gave her two weeks to decide. now she came back to me last night needing more time. i gave her that time frame b/c she acts like she wants to marry me, but i just want her to make sure. so let's say next week comes, & she can't give me an YES answer, what do i do? am i waiting again & again like before when she couldn't make up her mind, and really...kind of putting me to the side, or, do I draw a line in the sand and say "well if you havent made your mind up by now, i dont think it's meant to be" any advice on this "im damned if i do - im danmed if i don't" situation would help a lot. i love her, i dont want to lose her, but i also dont want to be put second, or like a toy on the shelf to where she'll take me down when she wants to be entertained.
2006-12-02
05:13:46
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brianju
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Marriage & Divorce