Ok, My bestfriend, mike, has recently been very mad at me. His old best friend,(jon) and me have been caught kissing infront of mike. The thing is jon told me he liked me, and would hang out a couple times. Jon also tells this to alot of other girls. After i leave the partyies jon is ussualy all over the other girls. But when jon asks to kiss me, i just cant say no. I really like him. I feel like if i say no he will forget about me and go with someone else. That would make me extremely jelious. I dont know how to say no to somthing i want. Mike tells me i deserve bette,r but when it comes to teling me this hes not easy on my feelings. He said not to talk to him until me and jon are thro. I dont want to let go of either of them.
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2006-12-02 05:22:28 · 3 answers · asked by COURTNEY! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wats the deal with mike seems like he's jealous...investigate..follow your heart...if you want something then do it but pls dont let anyone pressure you into doing anything ok? it about u being in control..have fun
2006-12-02 05:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend Mike is probably just trying to do what's best for you, and that's keep you away from Jon.
This Jon guy doesn't really like you. He's just using your affection for him to get a good lay, you know? He can say that he likes you but he really doesn't. Especially since he's going around hitting it of with any girl that goes for it. This Jon guy is nothing more than a whore and as soon as he has sex with you (which is his goal) he's going to leave you. Or he's just going to use you for sex as long as possible and then leave you.
"I feel like if i say no he will forget about me and go with someone else. That would make me extremely jelious."
You have to ask yourself. Do you really want a boyfriend who's going to go sleeping around with every girl that goes for it? I mean, how can he possibly like you if he's saying it to dozens of other girls? You're only fooling yourself if you think that he likes you. If you go for it, he's going to play you like he has every girl before you. And that's a fact.
2006-12-02 14:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be hard but i think you should go with mike.the other just seems to be taking advantage of you.
boyfriends may come and go but best friend s will be there for a while. if you think,if you dont kiss him he will forget you and go with someone else ,obviously you deserve better.you will be jealous for a while and would be hard.but we will survive we are GIRLS!!!and we rock!!
2006-12-02 13:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Shilpa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋