I just need advice. I seem to have run out of my own. I don't know what to do.
And an added question:
Q-How do I get a guy to notice me when he is so blind to see what's in front of him?
A- [That's where you come in.]
2006-12-02 05:19:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start talking to guys that seem like possible boyfriends. Get to know them better and take note of which show signs of interest back at you. Once you have done this for awhile there should be only one guy left to choose from.
2006-12-02 05:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be jumping through hoops for the rest of your life or you want to be with someone who likes you for the way your parents formed you and the perosnality you have without even thinking about it?
Unless you are a performer, be yourself and get out more. Try doing things for others and see how good you will feel. If you like being around older people, try visiting some in nursing homes or hospitals (the older ones who do not get visitors). Feed the homeless, perhaps doing something for our soldiers, the young who have no decent parents will take away the ste strain. Do something for yourself and take yourself out once or twice a month to your favorite eating place. ( I get my inspiration for poems sometimes from watching people interact when I am out)
Stay busy doing things for others and you will see that your mind will be occupied off of you trying to be something you are not to get someones attention for a moment.
If the person is not into you as you would like, you will feel worse in the end when they meet that special person who is being themself.
Consider yourself the prize and let him search for you! Girl, just get out there and be seen as you! Now get going and be your good self O.K.
About the crush thing-be able to say to yourself-he is a cutie, but I got it going on and then get going if he does not want you! (nothing is wrong with recognizing Gods craft in the opposite sex-just be a good girl and keep things in perspective) It will pass! I hope this helps a little. It is only an opinion and you have yor free will to take it or leave it. Ok. Good luck out there!
2006-12-02 05:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should just say something to him like comment something about him and start a conversation. but dot be creepy about it. just say something like, o i love that shirt your wearing. but dont be obsessive over him. if hes that blind to know your there, move on and get a really guy, thats what i did. even though we were together for about 6 months he never really wanted me to spend alot of time with him, his friends came first so if you do get a guy make sure they care about you. i wasnt cared about so i moved on and now i have the most loving boy friend.
2006-12-02 05:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a guy to notice you then just talk to him.be your self,and be honest.what i do is i tell one of friends to tell him i like him but then i pretend that i didn't want her to tell him...that usually works for me.and somthing else i tend to do is walk in front of him and flaunt!!! hope this helped!!
2006-12-02 05:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by naughty little inchworm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to go too an advice sight. this 1 works: http://www.anythingadvice.wetpaint.com this sight works. and she culd use some help with the q's that go on her web. cause people usually e-mail her. try it. it might help
2006-12-02 05:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by rlum0606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a place where u'll surely find one, that that one has got a good sharp vision, e-mail at vio_imnotinterested@dont be offended.dont replybac.yahoo.com, sorry got he's got a long e-mail id
2006-12-02 05:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you,i am 55 years old,welcome to my messenger.
2006-12-02 05:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by abotraka777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get his attention, by wearing unusual clothes. or try bringing a topic that you can tease him that he likes you
2006-12-02 05:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by spazjl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could e mail me and we could talk
2006-12-02 05:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋