How Do I get a Girlfriend?

Question

I DONT want to just ask. I need to know if they like me first. Im shy and I dont want to embarress myself by just asking.
How do i tell if a girl likes me?
How do i tell if a girl is single?
How do I ask them out once I know they like me?
Wheres a good place to find single girls besides school?

Did I mention I was too shy?

Answer 1

Well, if I were a guy and I wanted to see if a girl liked me, I would ask one of her friends, if that doesn't work out, ask her sibling. You can usually tell if a girl is single by seeing if she hangs out with a guy alot, that means she is probably seeing him, and if she flirts with guys alot, that means she's single. Asking people out on your first date is hard, say hey, I was wondering if you want to hang otu sometime, and take it from there. It depends on how old you are to find girls, if you're in your 20's probably a bar or club. If you're in high school, probably a football game.

Answer 2

Well, first of all if you see a girl that you think you would like to ask out try to make conversation with her. If that works then just take it slow and continue talking to her as a friend because that will let you know eventually if she has a b/f and also let her get to know you better. Then if she doesnt have a b/f then go for it and ask her out. I wish you the best of luck and dont give up.

Answer 3

Just go for it, get to know a little about them so they can get to know you.... In this time ask all the questions that you are not shy about asking... the more you talk to her and talk then you will get to see a side of her that you may really like and then she will get to see the real you.... Once she sees that I bet she would really like you and maybe just ask you or drop a lot of flurtting tips for you!

Answer 4

Hi joshrocksvegas,

First off, you need to work on your shyness. Guys aren't just born being Mac Daddys. You need to train yourself to flirt, look a girl in the eyes, smile and talk to them. It takes practice and you will make mistakes, but that's something that you need to do.

As far as all those questions, that is something that you need to ask the girl that you are sweet on. Ask them a lot of questions. Compliments are good too (as long as you don't give them a swelled head), but you mostly need to get to know them better.

You will take girls out to a lot of movies and dinners before you find one who likes you enough to want to be your girlfriend. It will happen, josh. Don't worry about it.

Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:

http://www.blowmeuptom.com

I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.

--Rick

Answer 5

You are being too timid. Girls hate that. Just ask out the girl you like. If she says "no," then that's not your problem. Just get some confidence, and you'll be golden.

Answer 6

just talk to her.
like a regular casual person.
by just talking to her you figure out
1) if she single or taken
2) her interest
just by going up and trying to talk to her without being a
jerk or hitting on her she'll open her eyes to you.
even if nothing turns out you just became friends with a great girl.
Friends can be a start.

Answer 7

Follow your heart

Answer 8

You just have to talk to her. If she mentions about her bf blah blah blah, then you know she isn't single.

Answer 9

if you are too shy to ask, go to wal-mart and buy one. they are in aisle 13.