Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

The guy i like has said some disturbing things to one of my friends. He said "your a gothic freak, do you wear skulls because you want to kill people?" I thought in my opinion that was kinda mean. My friend is not exactly goth, she may wear some black but that does not mean she's goth. Goths wear ALL black, and that is SO not her. PLZ help!

2006-11-30 12:18:12 · 6 answers · asked by CinderellaGurl12 3 in Friends

i dont have a drivers license and i'm 19 and i think she would think of that as a turn off and think of me as a loser am i just overreacting?

2006-11-30 12:17:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should that phrase be replaced with: "as long as it's convenient"?

2006-11-30 12:17:05 · 22 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my girlfriend of 7mo. We are both 24 and are university students. Problem is that we are of different "races" and her parents just don't approve. She doesn't want to go against the wishes of her dad. She has made her mind that she wants to be with me 3 times, each ending when the family gives her a "talk" about how wrong our relationship is. I have committed myself to this relationship and have been carrying most of the weight from day one. Were do I draw the line? At the most stressful time right after the parents do something she tells me to let time tell us what will happen and is not willing to talk to her parents about this. I have really been drained by the relationship by now. I love her more than anything and she is amazed by how much I care about her but when is enough just enough? I don't want to lose her but I'm deteriorating and she is not willing to stand up for us. I don't know how much more I can take and I really don't want to lose her.

2006-11-30 12:17:01 · 4 answers · asked by TheT 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do Women get the house and all the valuble stuff? Paul Mcarnty wife is getting 250 million and probly didnt earn any of that so why is she entitled to that and the houses and everything else?

2006-11-30 12:16:09 · 18 answers · asked by theoneandonly4251 2 in Marriage & Divorce

which would you choose...who would you choose to do it with and why would this be your choice???....have fun...;0)

2006-11-30 12:16:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 12:15:36 · 27 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating

So, there's this guy and a month ago I told him that I liked him! Well, he stopped talking to me and later I figured that I told him on his dad's death anniversary! So I emailed him (sympathy) and he seemed overjoyed to recieve it..then he stopped talking to me again! Well, turns out that I was wrong all along and he just didn't like me, and he went out with another girl! Well, I haved moved on since then, but I still like him a little! Today, out of nowhere he said "hey sam" to me and I was well shocked. Sometimes, when he sees me, he asks me stupid questions....what should I make out of this?

2006-11-30 12:15:26 · 4 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been with randy for 3 years and we are engaged and plan to get married this summer. well last night i had a dream about haveing sex with my ex that i had a still born by and we dated for like 10 months and he was my first love and i still talk to him from time to time and now he is married and has a new baby and he still tells me he loves me and to be honest i still love him but not like i do randy so what do u think the dream could mean

2006-11-30 12:15:24 · 6 answers · asked by kat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Only a couple of months ago, I photographed a little girl’s 3rd b-day party. Her eyes were perfectly straight and steady in all 60 to 70 pictures. Now, only a couple of months later, BOTH of her eyes are wildly crossed and move around independent of one another with no apparent control.
What I want to know is…and I hope someone can answer...could this little girl's eye problems be the result of an injury, of emotional or physical abuse?
Her mother is so hard on her and roughly this same thing happened to her older brother. This mother is impatient and verbally and physically abusive.

I only see this family about 4 times a year – they are so hard to be around. But I feel wrong to abandon these children. Yet I feel I am not helping anyway, because they are all always progressively worse.
Please, help me, help them, if you can, because I am losing patience and strength.

2006-11-30 12:15:08 · 4 answers · asked by alex k 1 in Friends

OK, there's this guy that I like. We use to be like best friends and then we started secretly being friends with benefits. Now, we don't even talk. We're not anymore, as far as I know. We haven't talked in two weeks and I have NO idea where we are. I still like him. Should I try and save the relationship, or just get over him.

2006-11-30 12:14:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

brain damaged person or child...or something so severe...and you finally tell a family member.."I can't do it anymore?''''....and you find out nobody will TAKE HIM??? do you think it is alright to put that person in a caring home...his social security check would pay for his care...(it is a friend of mine)...she would visit him, i know this!!! also would a CHURCH FORCE YOU TO STAY WITH HIM...WHEN HE IS NOT MENTALLY HERE ANYMORE??? JUST WANTED TO KNOW!!! THANKS!!!

2006-11-30 12:14:37 · 9 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex is is tryin real hard to get back wit me. Buying clothes, shoes, paying my bills, and buying me all these expenses **** and he knows I have a man but he said he is holding on to faith that we break up. I keep thinkin I should get back wit him cause he does more for me than my man now but if I do get back with him he aint gonna do as much

2006-11-30 12:14:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

get back together? Should I just ask him? I don't know what to do...please help.

2006-11-30 12:13:38 · 3 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 12:13:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Somewhere in the conversation, I agreed to put out for some McDonalds. What is wrong w/ me? I think I'm turning into one of those little sluts on Maury.

2006-11-30 12:12:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend cheated on me and I now he did but I dont know to dump him or confront him what should I do!

2006-11-30 12:11:42 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 12:11:36 · 6 answers · asked by Rachel T. 2 in Family

Well, it all started last year around christmas time and like i met this girl in my school and she was a really cute and nice girl. I soon added her on msn and we started talking. But after a few days of conversation, we didn't talk again except when we see each ohter at school. One month later, she had a boyfriend. Ended up her boyfriend was my best-friend. But still I wait for her endlessly, and a just a month before, he dumped her. I was there to support her and do anything she wanted me to do. But still now, shes still not over him. I dont think ever will. And i know that she won't love me back and also doens't know that i have feelings for her. But everytime i do talk to her, its just like how sad she is and how much she misses him and stuff. Its been a year now, and i jsut can't seem to get over her. And in about 2 months, sehs gunna go to a different high school and im really broken down. What should i do? Should i tell her how i feel? =(

2006-11-30 12:11:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 12:11:00 · 3 answers · asked by 8D 2 in Friends

on top of getting on the phone to "discuss" mid-conversation with his daughters when he calls a totally 2 different times that same week. So thats a total of like 4 times a week. She seems to be saying the same things over and over.....1)griping about me(the new wife) and 2)telling him how much his kids miss him and that he should try and see them more...problem is that we are two states away and she KNOWS we can't afford to see them more often cause we live 2 states away(my husband is in the navy)-and the last time we tried to see them, she said no way. I could see if she was calling to talk about letting the daughter that misses him so much come live with us. But I don't think its right or neccessary to call him just to keep telling him over and over that his children miss him so much given the cirumstance. She actually had the nerve to suggest that he quit his career to ensure he would be back in the same state "for the children." Is she calling to much and talking about

2006-11-30 12:10:56 · 26 answers · asked by Mommy2be 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so me and my BF have been going out for about a month and a half and I really like him. Im always paranoid and think hes looking at other girls but I know he likes me and hes not going to cheat on me, but today I asked him why he likes me and alot fo other questions adn we talked for alittle. But after he went home I was in the office and I was talking to this girl and she said he was talkign to her about me and he said he likes me and all but maybe Im too young. Im 14 and he's 16. I dont think he really has a problem with my age, but how I act sometimes, alittle young. But I want to try and act more mature/more my age ect... but Im not really sure how...? What Should I Do?

2006-11-30 12:10:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering.

More specifically, I'm talking more about rock and metal, not cheesy "love songs."

2006-11-30 12:10:30 · 6 answers · asked by jaxchick23 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is the worst line you have heard for a girl to get a girl to have sex?
mine is
the word is legs now lets spread the word

2006-11-30 12:10:22 · 9 answers · asked by mizz annie 1 in Singles & Dating

if you were 18 would 7.5 inches statisfy you?
if not what would it take?

2006-11-30 12:09:50 · 7 answers · asked by elhombre1892 1 in Singles & Dating

what are guys interested in these days as in like what are they looking for in a girl? I'm 16

2006-11-30 12:09:45 · 12 answers · asked by Zombie Love 1 in Singles & Dating

How long can a divorce be put on hold?
my wife and i separated in 2004, and i filed for divocre in 2005, since then we are trying to work it out, i put the divorce on hold last year, im still not sure we get along well enough to stay married, but it will be 2 years soon that i filed, how long will it stay on hold? does it automatically become final ,or cancel itself, i would like to give my marraige another year to see how we do

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the lawyer said he will put the matter on hold until he hears from me, but i want to know how long can it stay on hold before i have to make a decision

2006-11-30 12:09:05 · 4 answers · asked by crazylarry88 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this dude that i was talkin to was cool, we were friends, everything was goin great, we were havin a good time just bein friends, right? Well we went on this trip together and everything kinda got wierd. When we got back we talked and everything was cool, right? Well all of a sudden he just started acting wierd and... Well iono he is just bein wierd but now he like wants to be friends again... I just can't figure him out! Please help!

2006-11-30 12:08:40 · 5 answers · asked by Meghan 1 in Friends

When you are kissing a guy and he starts to feel you up, what does he mean by it?? Does it mean he wants more??(ie-sex)
Why must guys ruin moments so much??

on another note
If a guy you like and who likes you comes up to you b4 a meet and gives you a hug and says good luck and is there for you again after each event, is he there to watch girls in leos or support you??(this is for my friend)

2006-11-30 12:08:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i go to a gym in oklahomacity in a mall do somebody girls go there.PSM

2006-11-30 12:08:15 · 2 answers · asked by Kewl guy 3 in Singles & Dating