My ex is is tryin real hard to get back wit me. Buying clothes, shoes, paying my bills, and buying me all these expenses **** and he knows I have a man but he said he is holding on to faith that we break up. I keep thinkin I should get back wit him cause he does more for me than my man now but if I do get back with him he aint gonna do as much
2006-11-30 12:14:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I would STOP accepting his gifts. That is only leading him on BADLY. I know you may think "hes stupid enough to give it to me, why should I not accept?"
Its just the principle of the matter. If you know hes not going to do so much once he has got you, than you know realize he probably is just doing this for show. Stop accepting the gifts, start ignoring him and tell him he lost his chance. Cut him out and keep the other guy or cut them both out and find some one else. Its up to you. But I wouldnt go back, he thinks he can buy his way back and you are sending out the wrong message if you accept that and go back to him.
2006-11-30 12:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ufff girl me and u are in the same spot but as they told me if you love your man dont break up . because as i read you made me think that he wants buy you and that is not fair just think and try to do what you think is right
2006-11-30 20:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to think of yourself. Who are you gonna be happier with? who are you gonna be better with? that's your decision. Your happiness depends a little bit on that decision, so be careful
2006-11-30 20:16:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you stringing your current boyfriend along? You are letting someone pay for your stuff?!?!?! I don't know what's worse...you're actions, or your boyfriends stupidity.
2006-11-30 20:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by FRANKFUSS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him pay for stuff for you...If he wants to spend his money let him...I wouldnt get back together with him tho...
2006-11-30 20:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about love? Let your decision be based upon that and not what he will or won't do for you.
2006-11-30 20:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which one makes you happier? which one do you love more? which one do you see yourself with? there is your answer. and i think you care more about your ex, so maybe you should give it another try..
2006-11-30 20:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either be with him or cut him off!!! dont play with him tell him how its gonna be, quit accepting gifts...
2006-11-30 20:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an ex for a reason...remember that fact
2006-11-30 20:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋