OK, there's this guy that I like. We use to be like best friends and then we started secretly being friends with benefits. Now, we don't even talk. We're not anymore, as far as I know. We haven't talked in two weeks and I have NO idea where we are. I still like him. Should I try and save the relationship, or just get over him.
2006-11-30 12:14:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question you must ask yourself is, how much do you like him. Can you live wiht out him, do you enjoy being with him? If so go after him, if you feel its worth saving then go for it.
2006-11-30 12:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by HM2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to HIM about this. He may be thinking exactly the same thing as you.
From what I have seen friends with benefits generally hurts one of the two people as they become more attached than the other. Maybe you both have become attached but think the other isnt and are both being aloof about it.
Communication is essential in any type of relationship, romantic or other, particularly when things are more complicated.
2006-11-30 20:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by delprofundo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did your relationship have to be secret? Is it worth keeping? If it is, then you should have a frank talk with him. Maybe think of having a relationship that is not secret. If you like each other, then why not? I wish you all the best and you deserve a guy who will be clear about how he feels about you! Good luck on everything.
2006-11-30 20:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this one guy then you should tell him ( thats only if you REALLY like him) and if you dont really like him then just get over him and if you dont really know how you feel then ask him if you both want to be friends and see how that works out for you and him
2006-11-30 20:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by kc_fishes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋