Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

My ex-wife and I have two children together. I was not a good husband but came to an epiphany last spring. I told her I had changed and all I wanted was to be a family. She said I was too late and she was dating someone now. I do love her more than anything and the kids want us back together. I've tried writing her letters and telling her how I feel about her, but all she says is that I'm too late. I know deep down she still cares, but nothing I do makes her even think about me. We did have ten years together and she left without saying a word. What can I do to get her back, or at least give me a chance?

2006-11-30 16:32:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was on the phone with my and a boy I really wonted 2 talk to called so I dised my X when i was on the phone with mdy x he asked me if i loved him and told me he was thinking about me my ex sounded sad when i dis him you think maybe he was trying to get back with me what do you think I sould do tell me all smart a* sses I don't need yall' answers okay

2006-11-30 16:31:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im mixed(Russian and black),I have only dated white guys,except a black guy when I was 13,after I became more mature I never wanted to date black guys,I hated them,and the thought of any contact with them repulsed me I kinda stopped dating white guys because they were always pervish and always had some type of colored grl fetish,and with hispanic guys im the 1 with the fetish,I get so excited when I see a hispanic guy,he could be like a 5 out of 10 in the looks area but im ready to f*ck him right then and there,asian guys are kind of cute in a way but sadly I have seen like 5 in all my eighteen yrs where I live and that was a few yrs ago,and definetely no indians or arabs for me,im so screwed with my thinking

2006-11-30 16:29:46 · 14 answers · asked by bustybabygrl88 2 in Singles & Dating

This is me and my husbands first Christmas together unfortunally where going to have to spend it apart.... What can or should I send my hubby for the Holidays to let him know that I'm thinking of him this Holiday season???? Please note that he is deployed to Iraq right now and I know the things they can have are limited, but please if you are a military person or the next best thing...The spouse of a military person can you please help? It would be greatly appreciated..........

2006-11-30 16:28:53 · 13 answers · asked by The'Truth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend wont tell me what he wants.i need ideas for the maddness in shopping gose crazy and theres nothing good left.HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-30 16:28:41 · 7 answers · asked by blondieb5835 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is indeed the Head of the Household, but he does spoil me rotten. If I want him to carry me, like I like, he does it, or we will eat at what restauraunt I want to eat at(if I am not debated by our daughter) and practically anything I want my husband does his best to get it for me:) For example, he got me the jeep I wanted and gets me the type of jewelery I want. He also gives me all the love and attention I crave and need. I feel VERY HAPPILY married:) Do you think this is healthy for a marriage? It sure feels SO RIGHT to me....

2006-11-30 16:28:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have had a few girls in the last 2 years of school and im only in8th graade so i dont know a ton about girls so i want to know how should i ask a girl out with out it feeling all weirdand stuff afterwords?
I'm 13yrs old. wat do girls like?

2006-11-30 16:27:50 · 11 answers · asked by Spencer 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been talking to this guy sence june 2006.he wants to meet me and he wants me to stay with him sat.&sun.we have a lot in common and we have only talked on the phone and yahoo.i dont really know what to do.he says he really likes me and thinks we will hit it off good and if we do he wants to start seeing me.i just got out of a very bad abusive relationship 6weeks ago and i dont know if i am rushing things or not.i just dont wan tthis one to blow up in my face.i really like this guy he is sweet.i am a little scared to go see him and stay there cause i dont know him.so what should i do...

2006-11-30 16:27:08 · 19 answers · asked by harleyloveronly 1 in Singles & Dating

I met my best guy friend in the 7th grade. Right away we clicked we were both deep-thinkers. We ended up becoming best friends. He wasn’t that super attractive but he was so cool, confident, smart, funny, caring and kind. I developed a crush on my best friend. He was always a great person to me and MY dad could not find anything wrong (=o)with him other than the fact he could tell I liked him.
No girl’s ever really noticed him that year besides me because he was a mysterious artist type. The following year though he sprung up and he was a total stud! He talked to me all day the first day back and I kept wondering how the heck I got so lucky. He still had his winning personality too, I honestly feel that’s more important. Every girl started noticing him and every guy wanted to be him. But he stayed humble. We remained best friends but I got jealous of all his newfound female attention. So often I’d give him the cold shoulder and act as if he did something. He never did anything to hurt me. But I was just jealous.
Anyway we went off to separate High Schools but still kept in touch (same neighborhood). He was an instant hit in his school too…Girls, girls, girls. Me = sadness, jealous & cranky. Well that summer some of us discovered myspace and it wasn’t as popular then so we only had about 50 friends each (add ppl we know only). Well I was #5 after his four bros on his top friends, on his pics, and slideshow. He was top guy on mine as well and in my pics. The year went by and every time he had a girlfriend (twice) she would be right in front of me on his top. When they broke up, I was back again. I don’t know but I got sensitive about it and I was sad until I was back again.
Well today, I have been replaced again by a new girlfriend person. It’s Junior year and this is the third time. The problem with all this is I’m also in pics on the wall of his room there are other people but mostly me. In my room same thing. People think we’re crazy for having a real “guy-girl best friendship”. We tell each other a lot of things and we never let the other down. My parents know him very well and his parents know me. Still to this day it’s the same. But he’s frustrating me and I don’t know why. Why do I keep getting jealous? We’re still best friends. But I get jealous every time he get’s a girlfriend, even though this is the third time only. Why? Do I still like him and don’t know? Can anyone help. Any advice.

2006-11-30 16:27:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like this guy but he is kind of like always messing with me in class....him and his friends. They are like that to me and some other ppl but mostly me and my friend Kelsy. I like him even theo he can be kind of annoying...but when his one friend is gone he and i get along way better. Like he is nicer not such an annoying person!

Well I like him and he is always askin if i like his friend, but i dont and his friend and i hate eachother, but i like him......
what do I do?

Do you guys think he likes me?

I am in high School a sophmore.

2006-11-30 16:26:53 · 7 answers · asked by julia l 2 in Singles & Dating

An online friend whom I met briefly has started iming me all kinds of perverted things he'd like to do with me.

Sodomy (an@l), pretend forced sex, pretend Im hi slave, have sex w/me while Im asleep.

He also has sent me a vid of him um at the point of 'release'

I told him I couldnt talk to him after that and now he keeps sweettalking me.

Something about him makes my skin crawl.
Just a gut feeling.
He is very attractive but there is something depraved there.
Im not a prude but his interest in erotica seems pathological and twisted.

He scares me and I think he may be a sociopath. Am I overreacting ?

2006-11-30 16:26:52 · 10 answers · asked by lUKE13422 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this question sounds crazy. But I have a problem with boundries. is it wrong to demand what kind of respect you want? for instance if you have friends who care about you, but make jokes you find insulting or rude. or a ex boyfriend you know deep down cares about you, but who makes really immature jokes that you have grown out of. Im much older then he is, and some of my friends. But even though I know sometimes their comments are because of their age, does that mean I have to accept them? We are all in our twenties. Early or late, I dont like certain ways of speaking to me. Im scared to give boundries now, because I know it will be hard for everyone to accept. I know you will say if they really care about you they will... but thats not always true. people dont like change period. advice needed. again

2006-11-30 16:26:33 · 5 answers · asked by Jai247 1 in Friends

does any one know how i can do that cause i am tired of waiting...the reason i am waiting cause i don't know what to say or do?

2006-11-30 16:26:09 · 4 answers · asked by klaycon1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 16:25:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago and now I am having doubts about whether or not I did the right thing. He treated me great, however, and this is the horrible part, he really isn't that smart. It's not that he's dumb, he is just very uneducated to the point where he can't even read very well. I am in college, getting a degree and for some reason this bothers me, I feel like I can't have an intellectual conversation with him. There are other minor reasons that led me to break up with him, but this was the main one. Am I horrible? When I say it out loud, I feel terrible, but in the end, I want someone I can talk to about intelligent things....

2006-11-30 16:25:14 · 16 answers · asked by ashlee85 1 in Singles & Dating

my daughter is 17 years old and having sex with our next door neighbor; who is 35. I found out because I caught them in the house together one day when they didn't expect me. what should I do as a parent?

2006-11-30 16:24:47 · 67 answers · asked by diane p 1 in Family

2006-11-30 16:23:33 · 28 answers · asked by Emily M 2 in Weddings

2006-11-30 16:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by star w 1 in Friends

i have guess he's my friend he's a taurus.who i think is either shallow or full of himself. i have been nice to him in the past and he has talked about me behind my back and he made me cry once by teasing me. and i told him i loved him but as a friend or a brother and he basically he just sees me as a friend and hes been going with a skank form myspace who he thinks is girl of his life which i doubt it cause they always fighting & stuff and she does'nt respect herself. & my other friend he's a cancer. he is very nice to me and he has never talked aobut me or made me cry. he always makes me feel comfortable and he told me he liked. use to.. the guy that's a taurus wrote some bull crap on a note saying it would be good if we went together and i'm fine and ****. i think he just liked me for my looks and not me. my other friend me and him are very cool and he is much respectful. during my senior prom the one that's a taurus asked me to take a picture & he was like take the ******* picture

2006-11-30 16:22:38 · 7 answers · asked by marcyknndy 1 in Friends

2006-11-30 16:21:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a cocaine user and has been for many years. How do I deal with him? How do I live with him like this? What do I do? I've been living with this for a year and a half. and it's hard for me to deal with. Someone please help me. He doesn't come home until late he makes me worry about him. He promises he'll stop and he says I'm sorry I'll leave. I'm bad for you. Things like that. This really hurts me and I dont know what to do. I love him dearly and I dont want to give up on him, but I want him to get help. But he won't. He says he wants to but he doesnt do it. I think he says that to please me.

2006-11-30 16:19:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been with this boy boy bryant for almost 2 year im still a virgin but i know he wants sex he say he love me, and that he'd wait and i more then really believe him,but i really want to be with him so bad it burns.yeah i want to lose my virginity,because he is so the one i want to be with him and him only. i couldnt be happier with someone else. we always want to be togerther and he said he is waiting till im ready and he dosent preasure me but what if my mom finds out, what if i get pregnant,but if he's with me all that dosen't matter i would go through so much behind him and it's not puppy love we didnt' start saying we love each other to we really did that was 3 months after we started going out.and weve had problems but we alway stayed together and we were still in love i made my love for him grow deeper and alway i act the same with him im just a big baby and he knows and love it and he makes me happy the only time he says he only happy just being with me and i love him( BWJ)

2006-11-30 16:19:22 · 4 answers · asked by Lovely cryz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My father is a priest, but act with girls and hides it. Though he paid for my schooling and material possesions and is he old and told me he loved me, and that to be a better person without his mistakes. How should i treat him. My mother died by in nicaragua , by a machine gun wielding drunk that wanted to rape her, she fought and died. My father never hid that he sinned by having and sona and apoliged to the pope. What the heck do i act like. She i be a priest also , althought i like woman alot. If i become a priest , then I will not have kids a wife??

2006-11-30 16:18:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you have lots of Points,do you have as many Friends?

2006-11-30 16:16:39 · 3 answers · asked by karl s 3 in Friends

My girlfriend and I never talk anymore, we sit on the phone for hours with nothing to talk about. I get so frustrated with her and I just don't know what to do anymore.

2006-11-30 16:16:38 · 27 answers · asked by Matt N 1 in Singles & Dating

I was asked if I liked a person. I have a big problem. What would happen if I say no? What would happen if I said yes and told who is the person I liked?

2006-11-30 16:16:36 · 7 answers · asked by Pokemyster of the Digital World 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey, I got this girls phone number last saturday, we went for a drink after she was done work,talked, hit it off pretty good........then when the night ended, I got her phone number........everything was hunky-dorey.......I called her on tuesday night (3 days wait), but had to leave an answering machine message, just saying who it was, call me back, I really would like to get to know you, wanna have dinner?.......no call back wednesday......tried her again thursday, got a busy signal, then 20 minutes later the answering machine again!?,but I left no message.........So do I keep trying? Should I try Friday during the day? Man, I really wish I could just find out if she got my message on Tuesday......I hate not knowing......I would rather she said no I dont want to go out now, then leave me wondering......How many phone calls do I make before I give up? Or do I just meet her where she works at the pub on saturdays, and try to approach her( but that could be awkward.....

2006-11-30 16:16:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a girl says she will call, but doesn't call you....then what do you do. This girl is leading me on, but disappears, then magically reappears again! What kind of crap is this?!

2006-11-30 16:15:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there some girl in school that i just you know want to spend some time with them but i need to know how and what type of style i need to have with girls so they can invite me to help them i don't know meybe on homework?

2006-11-30 16:15:34 · 7 answers · asked by klaycon1 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 16:15:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends