My ex-wife and I have two children together. I was not a good husband but came to an epiphany last spring. I told her I had changed and all I wanted was to be a family. She said I was too late and she was dating someone now. I do love her more than anything and the kids want us back together. I've tried writing her letters and telling her how I feel about her, but all she says is that I'm too late. I know deep down she still cares, but nothing I do makes her even think about me. We did have ten years together and she left without saying a word. What can I do to get her back, or at least give me a chance?
2006-11-30 16:32:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunatly I have been in your ex wifes shoes!! I tried to give my ex a chance and it just made things worse. He said he changed but he didn't. What I should have done....(instead of taking him back right away) is make him court me and date me again. I think you should show her that you love her. Love is a Verb it's an action word. You can tell someone you love them until you are blue in the face but until you show that person LOVE they will not believe what you are saying. I'd say good luck and do something special for her that will remind her of a good time you had together in your life!!! God Bless
2006-11-30 16:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by peapod_mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 20:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 00:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is show her you changed. Talk and words are cheap buddy. And she has probably heard her fair share of them from you that were untrue. Make demonstrations through your actions. Dont speak bad of her to the kids - beause talking trash in front of the kids is a real no-no. If you say you'll be on time, be on time. Start to develop and demonstrate integrity. Speak honestly, but kindly. Seek some professional assistance in the matters that caused you to break up, for your OWN sake. Respect her wishes - it might be hard, but it will go a long way.
Thats about all you can do. There is no point in putting quaters in your own *** kicking machine, so don't. Learn from the past and grow. Change your ways for the better and know that if nothing happens between you and the ex, then at least you are a better person because of the process. And that, in and of itself is a great accomplishment anyone could be proud of.
2006-11-30 16:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2015-08-06 06:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Hugo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am an ex-wife. My husband was not a good husband either. Not only did he make many, many mistakes but here was the worst part. I would believe every one of his apologies and then we would start over with a clean slate.....again my total trust in him and every time he would make the same mistakes again.....and again.....and again. Over and over again. Mistakes...fights....apologies....forgiveness....trust...and then to find out it meant nothing. Until one day I woke up and I didn't love him anymore. It was all very sad because I had tried so hard to make it work for 9 years. After it was over for me, and thus for him, he apparently realized that all along he really did love his family.....and he thought they loved him, that I loved him so much that I would be there forever, no matter what. Women give 200% for their family forever, it seems, until the day they wake up and realize they have nothing left to give. I tell you this in hopes that you will be understanding of your wife and her years of trying and loving....in hopes that being a good father to your children will become the most important thing in your life now.....not your own needs. At least by being a good father, you will always have a part of your dream to cherish forever.
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2016-01-26 19:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I was not a good husband"
"She said I was too late and she was dating someone now"
"...nothing I do makes her even think about me."
It's pretty clear, isn't it?
It is very unlikely that you will get her back. I would guess that in her mind, she has already given you at least a second chance - maybe a third and a fourth.
Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned.
Do the best you can to stay close to your children and be a dad to them, but face the fact that your ex has moved on.
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2015-05-29 13:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋