My husband is indeed the Head of the Household, but he does spoil me rotten. If I want him to carry me, like I like, he does it, or we will eat at what restauraunt I want to eat at(if I am not debated by our daughter) and practically anything I want my husband does his best to get it for me:) For example, he got me the jeep I wanted and gets me the type of jewelery I want. He also gives me all the love and attention I crave and need. I feel VERY HAPPILY married:) Do you think this is healthy for a marriage? It sure feels SO RIGHT to me....
2006-11-30 16:28:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is that a serious question.... Please don't fool yourself, by thinking negative in any type of way about this.... You are his wife you deserve any and everything he has to offer... Rather it be better or poor, rich or in health... All those things is what you made a vow for, you deserve it all..... Not all people have a good genuine marriage... So be happy when and because you do.... I feel very spoiled by my husband, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me.... He is there for me, quicker than I can ask him to be.... And it's only right cause I made a promise to share the rest of my life with him.. And it suppose to be great and filled with all the things you THINK you want...
Appreciate that man and keep on doing what you do......You are his wife... A.K.A his Queen.... Hold your spot down and don't take for granted the good man that a lot of women WISH they had..... If you don't accept them the next women will.... Enjoy and I wish you the very best.....
Sincerely: ASoldiersWife
2006-11-30 16:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by The'Truth 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think wives do I know I thank my husband for things he does around the house because I truly appreciate any help I get but it is taken for granted when I do things as if it were my job to do everything so I am certain it is women who feel under apperciated.
2016-05-23 07:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok as long as your husbands reasons for buying these things are healthy. I know a guy who will do everything for his wife and allows her to keep her own paycheck without helping with the bills because he feels that he won't find anything better and wants her to stay around. Now that is not healthy. Buying out of guilt.
Best of luck
2006-11-30 16:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg.. I tell Matt to carry me "like we're married".. you know like how the guy carries the bride into their new house or whatever?! We've been married almost a year and I defintely am spoiled.. I know, because he tells me all the time. As long as we're both happy that's all that matters.. Same for you, if he didn't like it he wouldn't do it.. Smiles!
2006-11-30 16:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel spoiled rotten! My husband is always so very kind and sweet to me. We laugh alot, enjoy each other, and he's always taking me out to eat and all of that stuff. I think it's just his way to say "I love you". I appreciate everything he does for me and I know you appreciate your hubby as well. Enjoy!
2006-11-30 16:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im very spoiled by my husband. He does my dishes because he doesnt think I should get my hands dirty. cooks all the meals and actually brings me my plate and asks me if I want more. He washes the clothes..cleans the house, doesnt nag me when I dont "want to", plus works 12 hour days on his job. Doesnt run with his friends. Stays home with me. On top of that hes 20 and Im 45. I try to do that stuff myself he just dont let me. I try to get him to go to parties at our friends houses but if I dont want to go he just says he prefers to be with me. Its 5 years later and nothing changes. He just says he really truly loves me. So yep, I guess Im the luckiest (one of ) girls around. Enjoy it and be thankful everyday. After 14 years of abuse from the first I thank god daily. Trust me if it feels right to both of you then its right.
2006-11-30 16:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Carmela 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most of the times Zhusbans feel spoiled by Wives.Wife goes for shopping spree & poor hubby has to pay.
2006-11-30 16:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband is the same why I'm so glad to hear about other happy people. If you are happy with him and him happy with you then (and excuse my language her) HELL YEA it's good. There are so many people out there saying my husband is such a jerk all he think about is himself. Hold on to your man girl they are really hard to find it took me going through a bad marriage to find the good one I got now.
2006-11-30 16:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You sound very lucky. Just don't take avantage of him and abuse the situation. I did that with disasterous results. Don't get me wrong my husband still spoils me BUT he doesn't nearly to the same extent he used to. He got tired of all the "gimmies" and "I wants" and put his foot down. :(
2006-12-01 03:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Luv_My_Baby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question carla. if you think your marriage is happy and you both are comfortable in it ...then it is and you are! i am happy for you that you have someone that gives you what you want and need. so many married couples don't have that kind of bond with their spouses.
2006-11-30 16:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋