An online friend whom I met briefly has started iming me all kinds of perverted things he'd like to do with me.
Sodomy (an@l), pretend forced sex, pretend Im hi slave, have sex w/me while Im asleep.
He also has sent me a vid of him um at the point of 'release'
I told him I couldnt talk to him after that and now he keeps sweettalking me.
Something about him makes my skin crawl.
Just a gut feeling.
He is very attractive but there is something depraved there.
Im not a prude but his interest in erotica seems pathological and twisted.
He scares me and I think he may be a sociopath. Am I overreacting ?
2006-11-30 16:26:52 · 10 answers · asked by lUKE13422 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot he also added that he'd like to tie me up and sl1p it in. !
2006-11-30 16:45:21 · update #1
yea, i'd say you're overreacting...if sex-crazed psychos is your game... i suggest you steer clear of this guy, or you might end up a photo on some serial-killers victim list
2006-11-30 16:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by littlehey5 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's break it down:
#1: he's suggesting things, and sending you videos of things, that make you uncomfortable;
#2: when you called him on it, he stopped -- and started trying to convince you he's really not that way, using his charm.
You have more than a gut feeling; you have PROOF that he has a proclivity for sexual exhibitionism, and for SM sexplay.
Presumably he thought you might be into it, but since you made it clear you weren't, he's trying to get back on your good side. From there, it can only go one of three ways...
a) you get romantically entangled, he tries to convince you to do the same stuff again, and you get pissed off and leave;
b) you get romantically entangled, he never brings it up again, but he suffers and gets bitter because he has to suppress his sexual urges to keep you around;
c) you recognize that you two aren't sexually compatible, and you break it off for good and move on.
I will say this, however: he's not necessarily a sociopath. He just has different sexual interests. To qualify as a sociopath he's got to do a lot more; look up "sociopath" on Wikipedia for more information.
Oh, and at the end of the day: if someone scares you, stay away from them. It doesn't matter if you have a good reason to be scared -- it only matters that you ARE scared. Heck, if you're scared of the dark, and worried that you're overreacting, isn't it easier to just turn on a light?
2006-11-30 16:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not saying I think he's a sociopath or a pervert, but you should always listen to your gut instinct. Always.
2006-11-30 16:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a super freak...Always go with your first instinct.......Your first instincts are usually reliable...This guy needs attention , and since he has yours he going all the way with his perverting..Imagine if you were in his presence, he probably couldn't keep his hands off of you... Be scared, be very scared...I would think he is a psychopath who loves bondage and fetish sex..you know how freaks tie you up and use whips and chains...ignore this monster...You think you are overreacting, no you are not...Listen to yourself, how you feel about all this and ask yourself why are you afraid....???????? Leave him alone...You like living don't you
2006-11-30 16:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by wndybcktt 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont be scared!some people like jokes much!
if he tell about pervertions it doesnt means he perverted,
it can show he some like psychologist or scientist by nature,
hwo is like to talk,will dont do so in reality for shure.
i think he just interested in you much and want to see your reaction.tell him you is still virgin and hardly understand what he talked about.
2006-11-30 16:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by Felix Noel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is afetishist and maybe like being watched too
block list
and your feeding it to some degree by allowing it unless your down w that the weird stuff anywayyou could find a nicer guy even if you are
like me
2006-11-30 16:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not overreacting at all. Tell him he's creeping you out and to stop sending you that garbage. If he doesn't stop, save whatever he sends you and file sexual harrassment charges against him.
2006-11-30 16:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a pervert, get rid of this creep
2006-11-30 17:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no he is probally a real creep so let just post his video on web to embarrass him
2006-11-30 16:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
run, run away as fast as you can. he sounds crazy.
2006-11-30 16:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by ltonyasfun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋