Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

My girlfriend of 8+ years says that I'm "too big" and that she won't have sex with me because it hurts. I try to be extremely gentle, but she says that it doesn't matter - I'm just too big. I really didn't think that I was *that* big, but that's what she says... Yet, she expects me to help her reach orgasm (orally or helping her masturbate. When I try to talk to her about my own sexual needs, she just says "You'll have to find another way to meet your needs." I'm happy with the relationship, just not the lack of sex...

2006-11-29 03:08:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious. :)

2006-11-29 03:08:05 · 11 answers · asked by Confused kitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband an i have been married for 8 years. I had 2 kids when we met, then he and I had another. He had some bad things happen to him as a child from an older step brother. He is a wonderful man to me. He says he doesnt believe in cheating..he treats me like a queen, he just doesnt ever want to have sex. We did alot when we were dating, and after we got married. But 7 years ago, it just stopped. I wrote about this 3 mths ago, and its gotten worse. He refuses counseling, docs etc. He has initiated mayB 6 times in 7 yrs. He usually says he is to tired when I try. We only have sex maybe 3 to 6 times a year. Now, He says he wants to work on the marriage, but insists i dont initiate. And he gets angry and Yells, and says "I DONT KNOW", when I ask why he has rejected me. Well his reasoning for the past 2 yrs is cause I dont touch his penis correctly, either I tickle or its to hard. I need some help. Am I a fool? Ive tried EVERYTHING! I really am giving up, and I live a fake life.

2006-11-29 03:07:20 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it the bride, the brides mother, etc? Or do i just pick someone to give flowers to her.

2006-11-29 03:07:13 · 17 answers · asked by damacios_gurl_20 2 in Weddings

ok, so I accidently farted while I was sleeping and it woke me and my boyfriend up (on our anniversary too)..I was embarrased but he laughed and said it was his favorite present from me b/c I don't do that in front of him and he was starting to think I was an alien b/c so. Last night, he joined me in the tub and I was relaxing and then I did it again! I was shamed but he just laughing and laughing and started to cry b/c he was laughing so hard...I came back with, oh you love my natural jacuzzi huh? And he said yes...I was ashame but he loved it. I'm still not comfortable with doing that but should I just let it rip instead of keeping it in and being uncomfortable like I always am? I don't even use the bathroom when he's around...he doesn't let me have my privacy b/c he loves to be around me and we live together...

2006-11-29 03:06:26 · 18 answers · asked by angelic1302 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy for almost a year now. I still do not know if he likes me or not.

2006-11-29 03:06:25 · 7 answers · asked by LMLCHW 1 in Singles & Dating

Which bald guys do you find hot/sexy?

2006-11-29 03:06:08 · 51 answers · asked by derekfooty 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do new women I meet that are my age ask my horoscope sign? This is the 2nd time it happened in recent times.

2006-11-29 03:05:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 03:04:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So its is my gf 19th birthday in 2 weeks and I am struggling over a present. I was gonna go for something like a diamond necklace but I was struggling to decide so I asked her sister wot to get and she said some shoes, a top and skirt that she liked. So should I go wit her sis (cuz she obviouslly knows her well) cuz it sounds kinda borin and unimaginative or u got any good ideas!!! This will be the first present I get her!

2006-11-29 03:04:03 · 13 answers · asked by forshow 1 in Singles & Dating

With cuffs on, do you have to wear a selt belt, I have seen people pushed in the back of, the cage door shut, no belt th wear

2006-11-29 03:03:45 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

I have a fetish. I get turned on when I see a girl playing with her shoes or dangling her shoe. Like when I'm eating out with my girlfriend, she will sit there and constantly slip her shoes on and off and play with them under the table and I can't help but get turned on by it. I don't know why it turns me on, but it does and I can't help it. Do you think this is weird? Should I tell my girlfriend this, or keep it a secret. What if your boyfriend told you this, how would you react?

2006-11-29 03:03:36 · 12 answers · asked by seanW 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 03:03:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 03:02:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After seeing a guy for 2 1/2 months, he asked if I could give him some time. He said he was not sure what he wanted--he needed to figure out where he was going before he could figure out what he wanted. He said he has not felt happy and has been worried and stressed out due to other events in his life (work, worries about his children, etc.). He tends to be a worrier.

1) Is it better for me that he asked for some TIME rather than saying that he wanted SPACE?
2) How much time would a guy need to "figure out what he wants." I know he's got a number of things in his life straightened out since we toned things down.

P.S. It's been 3 1/2 weeks since I started "giving him some time." We've been in contact, but not every day like before. We've talked about 50% less than previously and have seen each other about 70% less than before.

2006-11-29 03:02:40 · 11 answers · asked by Taramasu2U 3 in Singles & Dating

always ends up being a bloke?

Bummer.

2006-11-29 03:02:33 · 25 answers · asked by Silkie1 4 in Singles & Dating

if you try to make conversation with a guy eg, ask him why he keeps texting you all the time, and he says i dunno, doesnt looks at you and just plays with his phone, he that i sign that hes shy???

2006-11-29 03:02:12 · 11 answers · asked by hunni!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 03:01:32 · 22 answers · asked by Lovely B 3 in Singles & Dating

i would do anything to keep this person happy i would die for this person to live longer i would walk to the end of the earth for her...she is all i think about...i want to make her my wife....she means the world to me ...

2006-11-29 03:00:08 · 10 answers · asked by babyboi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 02:58:05 · 47 answers · asked by Hannah A 1 in Family

OKAY SO THERES THIS GUY THAT I REALLY LIKE WE'VE BEEN TALKING FOR A LITTLE OVER 2 MTHS AND EVERYTHING WAS GREAT WE TALKED EVERYDAY AND WE WOULD SEE EACH OTHER ALOT WE'VE KISSED TWICE AND WELL WE CLICKED RIGHT AWAY.THEN THIS SAT I GOT A CALL FROM HIM AND WE TALKED HE TOLD ME THAT HE REALLY LIKED ME AND THAT HE WANTED TO KNOW HOW I FELT I TOLD HIM I FELT THE SAME AND HE WAS LIKE"SO WE CAN SAY WE ARE GOING SOMEWHERE RIGHT" I WAS LIKE YES. HE TOLD ME HE CAN REALLY SEE HIMSELF WITH ME AND THAT HE CAN TAKE ME HOME TO MOM. SO I WAS SUPER EXCITED. THEN SUNDAY CAME AND I DIDNT GET A CALL FROM HIM TILL LIKE 10PM AND WHEN I DID HE WAS ACTING WEIRD NOT HIMSELF. AND THE MONDAY CAME NO CALL TUESDAY ONE CALL DURING LUNCH AND IT WAS BRIEFLY HE ACTED LIKE WE WERE FRIENDS. WHAT IS GOING ON HE IS SO CONFUSING I KNOW WE LIKE EACH OTHER SO WHY IS HE ACTING THIS WAY. WHAT SHOULD I DO I DONT WANT TO PUSH HIM AWAY BUT I DONT WANT TO PLAY ANY GAMES. I LIKE HIM BUT I RATHER LET IT GO NOW THAT I CAN..HELP!! XOXO

2006-11-29 02:57:22 · 17 answers · asked by *SIMPLY ME* 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 52, he's 57 kids are grown we've been seeing each other for over 2 years . he moved into his own apartment almost one year ago. Today , he's going to divorce court at 8:30 am . He seemed so stressed out last night. Married for 38 years but has been totally unhappy for around 10 years and told me he's in love with me for the first time and has never known such bliss.Says he's NEVER been with another woman besides me and his wife if you know what I mean and as shy as he is, I totally believe him.
Question is: Its 10:00 am and I haven't heard from him. Should I be concerned? Please don't answer unless you've been there also. Serious inquiries only. Don't throw rocks please.

2006-11-29 02:56:31 · 19 answers · asked by CryBaby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My soon to be ex husband was telling people that he moved out because I was a bad mother. When I told him, "OK, fine, you can have the kids and I will see them on every other weekend" he says that he didn't mean that. He is now angry with me because I have told the same people that the real reason that he moved was to be with another woman, who he invited to his birthday party (of course I didn't attend and neither did the kids). He is now angry because I exposed his deeds and he has lostythe respect of some of his friends. I say, can't pay, don't play. He apparently had no respect for me when he invited his "woman" to party that included mutual friends. He says that no one would have known that she was other than a friend if I hadn't said something. Am I missing something here?

2006-11-29 02:56:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

u know i want a house, a car, a branded watch, a loving husband, a caring mother-in-law, a good working environment, good branded clothes to wear, a good pay...............will i get all theses or all this will be only achieved in my dreams............you tell me.

2006-11-29 02:56:04 · 14 answers · asked by success is who i am 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i only work in the evenings. and i do computer work. while i do have opportunities to play on the computer at work, i have to set an example for all of you.
especially for the middle and high school kids on here. Im tired of my tax money being wasted by kids who want to play on the computer during school hours. If you have a job and are at work now, does yahoo answer effect your ability to do your job? Be honest.
Or can you multi-task? (i bet a lot of you will lie about yourselves and say you can multi-task....many people cannot.)

2006-11-29 02:55:34 · 17 answers · asked by Little Black Riding Hood 1 in Singles & Dating

He never saw the chick nor met her. So he doesn't even know what she looked like! Just an exchange of ph numbers and a few short conversations on the phone, but I caught him by archiving his instant messages. He was im-ing her behind my back. I would walk into the room and he would immediately sign off. So anyway I keep thinking about it and can't get it out of my mind. He says he is very sorry, he would never want to hurt me. He even got sick and cried. Any ideas that will get this out of my head???

2006-11-29 02:54:57 · 18 answers · asked by chatterella 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sure we all have a favourite fantasy - but should we attempt to act it out (within reason xxx) or is it best they remain just something in your head (very sexy that can be) ?

2006-11-29 02:54:19 · 18 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

I wish it was easier to buy, or even if we had USDA Grade A weed we could buy at a store.

The States need to open up a weed depot....

2006-11-29 02:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Basically I went into a store and gave a lovely female my number on a piece of paper i dint get to talk to her for long as she was at work. Straight away there was a connection and she foned me a couple of days later shes told me she is kinda with someone but seems to be keen on me. Doers this mean she might not have a partner after all and wants to get to know mw to see if i am a serious guy?

2006-11-29 02:52:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 02:52:48 · 14 answers · asked by ROBIN C 2 in Singles & Dating