My girlfriend of 8+ years says that I'm "too big" and that she won't have sex with me because it hurts. I try to be extremely gentle, but she says that it doesn't matter - I'm just too big. I really didn't think that I was *that* big, but that's what she says... Yet, she expects me to help her reach orgasm (orally or helping her masturbate. When I try to talk to her about my own sexual needs, she just says "You'll have to find another way to meet your needs." I'm happy with the relationship, just not the lack of sex...
2006-11-29 03:08:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My girlfriend of 8+ years says that I'm "too big" and that she won't have sex with me because it hurts. I try to be extremely gentle, but she says that it doesn't matter - I'm just too big. I really didn't think that I was *that* big, but that's what she says... Yet, she expects me to help her reach orgasm (orally or helping her masturbate. When I try to talk to her about my own sexual needs, she just says "You'll have to find another way to meet your needs." I'm happy with the relationship, just not the lack of sex...
Let me clarify that...my being "too big" refers to my penis size, not my weight.
2006-11-29 03:31:12 · update #1
Dump her and get a gf with a bigger vagina. If she said "You'll have to find another way to meet your needs," then she is selfish and not looking out for you so why would you be with her? Don't you want someone who is looking out for you and who you can look out for as well?
2006-11-29 03:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex equals no relationship. If she can't get over her issues then you need to move on. The only other option is if she lets you bring other girls home, but what kind of relationship is that?
2006-11-29 11:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go into the porn business, this way you can make money,get your rocks off, and keep your girlfriend, since you have been with her that long. If not, she needs to figure out a way to help you out.
2006-11-29 11:13:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she don't accept you the way you are forget her and go find another girl that does I mean if you ain't over 200 pounds then she just crazy if she calling you fat.
2006-11-29 11:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Loka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please!!!!!!....you have 2 choices either have it surgically shrunken ....or get a new girlfriend ...what did she do for the first 8 years ....also stop helping her if she won't help you
2006-11-29 11:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time for you to find another girlfriend. Something is definitely wrong here and that's not your organ's size;)
2006-11-29 11:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by plutonas2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she mean that you need to sleep with another woman who is big enough to satisy your sexual needs?
2006-11-29 11:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to lose weight. No offense but us women don't like to be trampled.
2006-11-29 11:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by Kat T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking your doctor or a therapist what you should do. Hard question (no pun-intended).
2006-11-29 11:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start again with another woman. some "Big Loose woman"
2006-11-29 11:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋