why are guys so confusing?

Question

OKAY SO THERES THIS GUY THAT I REALLY LIKE WE'VE BEEN TALKING FOR A LITTLE OVER 2 MTHS AND EVERYTHING WAS GREAT WE TALKED EVERYDAY AND WE WOULD SEE EACH OTHER ALOT WE'VE KISSED TWICE AND WELL WE CLICKED RIGHT AWAY.THEN THIS SAT I GOT A CALL FROM HIM AND WE TALKED HE TOLD ME THAT HE REALLY LIKED ME AND THAT HE WANTED TO KNOW HOW I FELT I TOLD HIM I FELT THE SAME AND HE WAS LIKE"SO WE CAN SAY WE ARE GOING SOMEWHERE RIGHT" I WAS LIKE YES. HE TOLD ME HE CAN REALLY SEE HIMSELF WITH ME AND THAT HE CAN TAKE ME HOME TO MOM. SO I WAS SUPER EXCITED. THEN SUNDAY CAME AND I DIDNT GET A CALL FROM HIM TILL LIKE 10PM AND WHEN I DID HE WAS ACTING WEIRD NOT HIMSELF. AND THE MONDAY CAME NO CALL TUESDAY ONE CALL DURING LUNCH AND IT WAS BRIEFLY HE ACTED LIKE WE WERE FRIENDS. WHAT IS GOING ON HE IS SO CONFUSING I KNOW WE LIKE EACH OTHER SO WHY IS HE ACTING THIS WAY. WHAT SHOULD I DO I DONT WANT TO PUSH HIM AWAY BUT I DONT WANT TO PLAY ANY GAMES. I LIKE HIM BUT I RATHER LET IT GO NOW THAT I CAN..HELP!! XOXO

Answer 1

It sounds like he might have been telling another girl the same thing this weekend. Just leave him alone and when he calls or text you don't respond. Alot of guys act this way so they won't have to buy someone a Christmas present! Like we need one anyway huh? Find a nice guy that is not going to play games with you.

Answer 2

I've heard of cases where the only objective sometimes is to see whether or not his actions have a positive impact. What happens is there's a lot of energy and enthusiasm up until the point where you "fall for him". There's a challenge and even a thrill that keeps him going up to that point. And once he succeeds (sees that you actually have begun to like him), it's almost like "mission accomplished".

Most often, people with relatively lower self-esteem and self-confidence tend to test their abilities to be "marketable". And once they have succeeded, their interest level drops.

I am not saying he is that way. That's the first thing that came to mind when I heard you say this.

Suggest you just ignore him while keeping an open mind. He may after all, have a very reasonable reason for his recent behavior. Good luck :-)

Answer 3

Girl he seem like a very nice guy buy maybe you just need to call him and talk about how you feel about the situation maybe he will answer why he acts this way but if it leads to no where let him go and move on.

Answer 4

LOL. you may want to be style of youthful. you haven't given any information about your project. yet one ingredient i'll assert is that youthful adult males have a tendency to lack self belief each and every now and then. perchance he doesn't recognize the right issues to assert, or perchance he's purely to shy to assert how he feels. ORRR, he's sending mixed alerts or no longer exhibiting you the interest you want because he's truly in straight forward words after one ingredient from you (sex) that would make experience once you're in the age 16-25 variety. at the same time as a guy truly cares about you, you'll purely recognize it. he's thoughtful, thoughtful and cares about your opinion. sturdy success

Answer 5

Not sure if YOU have tried calling him or not.. if not, then maybe you should... just ask him out right, its better to know whats going on then waiting by the phone (so to speak)

If not u could always do it back to him, if he can play games with u then maybe he really isnt worth it,.. the next time he calls say ur busy.. if he really likes u, he should respond :)

Answer 6

Well guys and girls can both be confusing. the number one problem is communication.
Okay so he told you He liked you, and You like him. But you shouldnt have gotten to attached just SO soon. He could have changed his mind.
But all you need to do is ask him, why he is acting that way towards you. and Just keep confirming where you two are going from here.
Be on the same page.

Answer 7

Guys are a little more easy to understand then women. (Have you read the book, He's just not that interested, if not its a must read) If you likes you, you will know it. Most men don't play head games, they let you know that they have an interest. If he is pulling this stuff early on, its a complete turn off and I know I wouldn't want to waste my time.

Answer 8

Let's not point the finger to a particular gender with their confusion.All i know is from my experience as a human being with inner turmoil i tend to hurt those closet to me.Most of the time it doesn't have anything to do with that individual.It has everything to do with unhappiness with self.

Answer 9

first, stop yelling. second, he's playing the field. don't lose yourself to the shadow of a man. be yourself, the confident, creative person you are. think about it this way, even if he's a one-in-a-million kind of guy, there's still about 6500 people in the world just like him. good luck!

Answer 10

Sounds like someone told him something he did not like, about you, whether it be true or not. Don't contact him, and if he calls you, be cool but nice. Sounds like he is the one that is confused.