Family & Relationships - 27 November 2006

my girlfriend of seven years and two kids together has left me. she says that i don't help enough with the kids and house work and it is true. we both work the same hours and i admit that i haven't helped her as much as i could have at home. not to mention there has been times that i have stayed out with people partying instead of being at home but not alot of times have i done this. she told me to get some help to better myself so we can stay together as a family. the night that i went to my families home....she had sex with my friend. there are three or four other times that she has cheated on me that i know of for sure and two other times that i've heard of but have no evidence. she told me she is still talking to the guy that she recently had sex with but they are only friends and has no intentions of being with him or me for now because she needs space. i've never cheated on her. it hurts badly. but i love her. should i try to get back with her or is it over?

2006-11-27 04:02:13 · 5 answers · asked by laviniablue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother said she drove behind her and she was all over the road,... my grandmother said it was becuase of the dog.
Frankly I was surprised to find out she was still driving,.....
She can hardly walk sometimes,,....

I love her dearly but what about the safety of the other people on the road? SHe is so stubborn,....
I told my mother to call the police so that they can nicely stop her and take her liscence away, Is that mean?
My mother said that would give her a heart attack.

I mean she really SHOULDNT be driving! SO what should we do?

2006-11-27 04:01:38 · 10 answers · asked by Pro_Dog_Trainer 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was wondering cause i am going out with a girl that i really like and i was wondering if maybe that a guy can take romance too far if its even possible.

2006-11-27 04:01:31 · 3 answers · asked by Dwaine 1 in Singles & Dating

Are older women easier to get
are they better at sex
do they take the intiative

2006-11-27 04:00:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

GUYS ONLY please -- How would you react if your girlfriend told you that she is a virgin? Would you respect her?

2006-11-27 04:00:11 · 13 answers · asked by Scrapbabe7 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 03:59:59 · 8 answers · asked by ardeiiaa 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf lives about 2 hourse away and i have a problem with talking with him soetimes and even knowing what he is doing. sometimes he doesnt talk to me for a couple weeks. not sure what to do. should i trust him or just try to find someone else. we have been going out for 7 months now

2006-11-27 03:59:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sick of being abused by my boyfriend, can I get him out of the house we share? I desperately need some advice on this.

2006-11-27 03:59:18 · 35 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was hit on twice in a couple of weeks sent flower's first and phone calls regular, then the disaster in their life were they needed money very fast to be sent by western union so they could return back to england after a bussiness trip were they were mugged on the evening of their departure [ how conveniant ] and calls made from a nigeria number i wonder if anyone actually sent these men money and warn any ladies out there do not send money to anyone on a dating site if they are really in trouble they must have friends or family who would help them.

2006-11-27 03:58:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I get to see his 10 year old son three times a year (we live over a thousand miles away) and one of those times is Thanksgiving. We asked 'BabyMomma' if it was okay for us to get him an XBox 360 as an early Christmas gift. She said'yes, but how am I supposed to top that?'. So we give it to him and he's all happy and stuff, he and his Dad have some bonding time and everything is great. When BabyMomma arrives to pick him up, he exclaims 'hey mom, dad got me an XBox!' to which she replies 'yeah, well I got you a Playstation 3!'.
He hasn't signed onto his XBox live account, which leads me to believe that they hooked up the PS3 and the XBox is going to be a dust collector. She couldn't even wait until Christmas or something. Says she just happened to be at the right place at the right time to get one - she was in a WalMart and they announced that 4 more had just come in (isn't the second shipment scheduled for December 10th, and would they really risk a stampede?) Help!

2006-11-27 03:58:12 · 5 answers · asked by AngG 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend brought a boy in once and snuck out 3 times getting caught twice. 4 sex. is she bad

2006-11-27 03:57:30 · 5 answers · asked by Chyna Sierra N 1 in Friends

My parents want me to talk to my aunt and my aunt was really mean to my mom. So i don't like her anymore and she know's that. And on my birthday after getting all the presents from everyone except from her My dad said to me to say hi to her . But i didn't do that. I think my dad is kinda upset about it . What should i do about her? I know how to deal with my dad. I'm sure he'll be fine.

2006-11-27 03:56:57 · 6 answers · asked by life 1 in Friends

2006-11-27 03:56:39 · 9 answers · asked by . 6 in Singles & Dating

If someone said I love looking into your eyes , their is something special about your eyes ?

2006-11-27 03:55:59 · 15 answers · asked by be real 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-27 03:55:42 · 11 answers · asked by Only1 Love 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy that I was dating casually/lover for more than a year just recently moved away for job reasons. We're still keeping in touch, although not as much as we were in person of course. We never really talked about our problems together but I felt that it should be done if we were to get serious. He was starting to open up right before he left, but I feel that there is unfinished business on both of are parts. In a recent email, I told him that I had overcome my problem with diet pills (ephedrine) so that maybe he'd understand that I had a problem too with addiction...his addiction (chewing tobacco) and hopefully he can understand how much I care for him. Anyway, long story short-sorry, if I emailed him with that info, will this make things weird between us or will it help the relationship, like us trust each other? What do guys think about that type of situation?

2006-11-27 03:54:35 · 5 answers · asked by V i P b A b Y 1 in Singles & Dating

How many of you have had to end a close and/or long standing friendship? And what were the reasons why you had to end it? (Just friends please- no significant others or family members.)

2006-11-27 03:54:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-27 03:54:22 · 11 answers · asked by Victorio 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to make a basic cake topper that I can add a chopper too I thought with all the hobbists out there, there would be a website.

2006-11-27 03:53:29 · 2 answers · asked by xziledillusions 1 in Weddings

how do i love myself after a breakup this son of b i t c h lie to me over and over and also how do i move on i very depress,lonely, also i have put my life on whole for him. how can he do this to me. i really want to kill him for all the pain, and hurt that i am going through.

2006-11-27 03:53:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-27 03:51:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, maybe I'll date her once I get to know her a bit bettter, but she still treats our friendship like s***. Well it's not like she's mean to me or anything, but when we text I ask ALL the questions and she just gives plain answers and makes it seem she's uninterested and then she ends up dropping the conversation and leaves me hanging without even ending it. What's up with her? And what can I do to keep our FRIENDSHIP alive?

2006-11-27 03:51:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My man has been cheating on me. His new gf and I are going to confront him on Wed since he's been lying to us both. We have a 2-yr-old daughter together. We have a business together. I've wasted over 6 yrs of my life with this as$hole. Now that it's all over I'm wondering if you think I should play nice and let him keep the business and a new car and visit my baby or should I be a total b^tch and do everything I can to take everything from him and keep him from my baby. The only reason I even consider that is cause he has 2 other kids (w/ 2 other ladies) 1 he's never met and the other he rarely sees. I don't know if it would be best for our daughter for him to continue to see her because I know through the years he'll break promises to her since he does that to his other daughter. Should I even give him a chance? Should I take everything from him? We're common-law married so I have to divorce him. I'm going to consult with a lawyer to see what I can do legally be but should I be nice?

2006-11-27 03:50:28 · 24 answers · asked by smarty pants 3 in Marriage & Divorce

fri. night i was w/ my g/f family. i was talking to her mother and she asked me if she was going to class and if she was still taking her meds. i told her the truth which is that she's not going to school and she's not taking her meds. i told her because i was mad that she wasn't going to school and that she lied strait to my face about it for over a month and she told me she was taking meds but really flushed them. so her mom started yelling about it. that pissed her dad off that her mom was yelling because now he had to deal with her. her mom informed me that she had stole 1000$ from them which i only knew of 300that i thought was given to her. i was pissed about not knowing were the money went. her dad left and her mom got a ride home. we got into it cuz she was pissed that i said anything. she hit me w/ a bottle and i busted her lip. i had no car so i left on a dirtbike w/no lights helmet or shirt to go back to their house to get my car. when i got there they were really mad @ me.

2006-11-27 03:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no noise. he say it cuz men don't make noise like womens in bed. i don't think that true? he say the sex i givin him is mad good! so why he not making no noise - he nuts and everything. what it mean if a man quiet in bed, during sex?

2006-11-27 03:50:00 · 5 answers · asked by smartsexycurvy 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband says he wants me back but he kicked my & our daughter out a few months ago.I moved on & I'm fallin for my ex-boyfriend from long time ago, & I think it would work with him & I. But my ex-husband wont stop pushin me to come to him, he says he will take our daughter from me, he just wants me to come back to him so he can have our daughter & for me to help him rasie his other daughter. But I'm happy where I'm at

2006-11-27 03:49:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello i know this is a funny Question but I've been with my bf for 7 years now and I just really love him alot and I wanted to do something big to show him how much i love him but i have no money and i think it would be hard to do because we know eachother so well we know we love eachother so like something little like sexual favours arent something that would show him i love him as much as i do because thats the same ol stuff u know? 7 years .... lol I want to do something so he's like wow she really does love me alot just kidna like a refreshment ... anyways if anyone knows what im talkin about do u have any suggestions for me ??? let me know Thanks!

2006-11-27 03:49:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i am a single mother of four kids and ijust recently lost my job and i am looking for donations of xmas gifts for my kids i went to the salvation army no luck and churches and about everything elese no luck if anybody would help i would greatly apprieate it please let me know here is my email address if you would like to email me and let me know i wouldnt even ask if it wasnt for my kids and its christmas mrssweetheart231@aol.com

2006-11-27 03:49:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hi i m a real man , i m sincere and honest i believe in a good friendship with good friends ....i believe in God , i love my family ....and i love myself.....im going to say that im looking for a love and friendly with big heart and soul who respect life, if any one interest in me so please contact with me.

2006-11-27 03:48:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bought a xmas present for my bfriend that I know he needs. I spent alot of $$ for it (alot for me) and now he says he is asking his dad for the same thing but a nicer more expensive one than the one I bought. now I feel bad bcuz its cheaper and I am afraid to give it to him and he won't like it. Should I give it to him anyway? He can have 2 I suppose but damn I can't believe that happened!

2006-11-27 03:48:53 · 4 answers · asked by littlemiss-sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating