my girlfriend of seven years and two kids together has left me. she says that i don't help enough with the kids and house work and it is true. we both work the same hours and i admit that i haven't helped her as much as i could have at home. not to mention there has been times that i have stayed out with people partying instead of being at home but not alot of times have i done this. she told me to get some help to better myself so we can stay together as a family. the night that i went to my families home....she had sex with my friend. there are three or four other times that she has cheated on me that i know of for sure and two other times that i've heard of but have no evidence. she told me she is still talking to the guy that she recently had sex with but they are only friends and has no intentions of being with him or me for now because she needs space. i've never cheated on her. it hurts badly. but i love her. should i try to get back with her or is it over?
2006-11-27 04:02:13 · 5 answers · asked by laviniablue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You guys are not even married and your having these kinds of problem, WOW. My advice to you is to let her go, she obviously doesn't love you if she's cheating on you. You need to move on and find someone thats worth your time and your love. Help her with the kids yes, but you need to move on.
2006-11-27 04:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone just because you don't help her around the house does not give her the reason to go sleeping around on you if you are being faithful so should she I know that is is going to be hard to just walk away from a seven year relationship but you have to not only for yourself but for your kids and if she is still communicating with the guy she slept with she does not have any intentions being faithful to you
2006-11-27 12:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by ~Ta-Ta Licious~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good example of a relationship that probably needs some commitment. If you were married, do you think this situation would have happened? I think you should go see a therapist together before trying to attempt a relationship again.
2006-11-27 12:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by SavvyGrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are acting like this with being married, I say you should move on. Will you ever be able to trust her. That's what you need to ask yourself.
2006-11-27 12:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you both need to grow up before trying to have a relationship togeather
2006-11-27 12:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋