My ex-husband says he wants me back but he kicked my & our daughter out a few months ago.I moved on & I'm fallin for my ex-boyfriend from long time ago, & I think it would work with him & I. But my ex-husband wont stop pushin me to come to him, he says he will take our daughter from me, he just wants me to come back to him so he can have our daughter & for me to help him rasie his other daughter. But I'm happy where I'm at
2006-11-27 03:49:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he's threatening custody issues, get a lawyer and work it out for the sake of your child. I think you might be wise to take a break from your love life to deal with your ex and child before deciding to fall in love with another ex.
2006-11-27 03:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ex husband cant be certain that he will get sole custody of your daughter. He is mad and is just trying to upset you. He put you and his daughter out. If he really wanted sole custody of his daughter then he should have just put you out. I wouldnt go back he has had his chance. Enjoy yourself dont be so ready to be with another man and get into a relationship so quickly. Your daughter is going to miss her dad spent time with her while she is adjusting to him not being around.If youre working for 8 hrs a day she need her time. You can make it without a man its only been a few months and not you are already with someone else?
2006-11-27 11:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He kicked you out and now he is going to threaten you? Just proves that he isn't in this for the right reasons. You should get a lawyer and file for divorce before he does. He won't have much of a chance to take custody of your child. If I were you, I'd basically stop responding to anything other than his rights of visitation to his daughter. Otherwise, keep moving on with your life and enjoy. Life is short. Who needs the grief? Tell him that it was his decision and you've decided to live with it...so should he. End of story!
2006-11-27 12:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by seattlego 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer and tell him about the ex-hubby having kicked you both out in the first place, then threatening to take the daughter from you. A judge won't like that one bit.
You're also very wise not to consider going back to him. You go, girl!
2006-11-27 11:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by bookworm1171 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UGH! Stay away from him!!! He's using your daughter as a way to manipulate you into coming back. If he really cared about you or your daughter, he wouldn't have kicked you both out like he did. Don't worry about him taking your daughter from you. Courts almost always favor the mother. Unless you're cooking meth in your house or something, he can't take her away from you! And the fact that he openly admitted that he wants you back to help him raise his other daughter screams cowardice!! Stay away from him girl!!!! If he starts threatening you, get a restraining order!
2006-11-27 11:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should always move forward in life...not backwards. If the relationship was unhealthy to begin with it will not change. Move forward and take your chances as they come. If he trys to take your daughter fight him...she is the most important priority in life.
2006-11-27 12:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Nana T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex. Keep him that way. If you have custody of your daughter he can't take her away. Stay where you're happy.
2006-11-27 11:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by angelica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go back. just follow your heart.cause when you and your ex-husband get in a fight he is going to kick you and your daughter out again.
2006-11-27 12:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by MICHELLE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..and so you cannot decide whether you want to be an indentured servant and miserable for the rest of your life or happy?
You shouldn't be asking for advice here. If you can't make this decision on your own and come up with the painfully obvious answer than you should seek professional advice. Professional help as well.
2006-11-27 11:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
stay where you are at and have him go through the legal way to help raise your daughter if he can't help raise her without having you he is just using your daughter anyway to get to you. Sorry
2006-11-27 11:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anne D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋