my bf lives about 2 hourse away and i have a problem with talking with him soetimes and even knowing what he is doing. sometimes he doesnt talk to me for a couple weeks. not sure what to do. should i trust him or just try to find someone else. we have been going out for 7 months now
2006-11-27 03:59:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you & your bf agreed to a commitment, part of the package is to be open to one another and having constant communication to make your relationship work. If after 7 months, you feel that you're relationship is not working, then you better talk to your bf seriously and assess your relationship together. From there you will know how go about with your relationship. Being together but not really together is just a waste of time. You could have started an ideal relationship with someone had you not been in an unproductive relationship.
2006-11-27 04:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say get out and live your life. You don't really have to get involved with someone else to live your life. I would also say talk to him and let him know how you feel. He may not even be paying it any attention, so you bring it to his attention. I have been going through the same thing with my bf but I started living my life and stopped calling him and being around all the time. Now he has started paying attention and I didn't have to get involve with noone else.
2006-11-27 04:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by T. S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang! Keep the line of communication open, its very important in any relationship. Also try visting him for a surprise and spend time doing what "he" wants to do.
2006-11-27 04:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Careatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's avoiding you. It's clear to see. I can bet he's got another somewhere else. Why should he pay attention to you now? You are there all the time. Anytime he's ready, you are there. Get out now.
2006-11-27 04:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jayme C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it that he doesn't call you after you call him? if so he may be genuinely busy. now, if he's the one that never wants to talk, i think you should seriously sit down with him and tell him you want to be clear about your relationship. does he want to keep it going? does he still feel the same way he used to about you? if your head tells you not to trust him, follow its advice.
2006-11-27 04:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it seems that you are the only one trying to make the relationship work then let it go
2006-11-27 04:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by ~Ta-Ta Licious~ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find someone else who doesn't live so far away
2006-11-27 04:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him if he doesnt listen leave him
2006-11-27 04:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋