We were happy and excited to have a home when we bought our flat 3.5 years ago. But he is lazy, verbally abusive when angry and is poor at showing his feelings...we argue constantly and I have recently moved back to my parents. When we are good we are good together, but when we are fighting it's a nightmare and he never can take the blame...he gets agreesive with things in our home (holes in walls, holes in doors, broken chairs) whereas I get hysterical and start crying uncontrollably which seems to provoke him...he doesnt listen and he always says its everyone else's fault. Our flat which was once a nice place looks horrid, holes in our bedroom wall, holes in the doors, half decorated kitchen and he makes no effort to repair anything he makes excuses. He has no social life he is never out. He lets me drive around in a death trap and doesnt even care, he does things when it breaks down and he has too....but Ilove him and I miss him when I am not there..what shall I do? Please someone..
2006-11-27
03:29:27
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