I just recently left the man I was living with because of his drinking.
We were together for 6 years. When we got together I was an alcoholic too. I have been sober now for three years. I am the Mother of three kids(two grown and away from home,and my youngest turned 14 on Thanksging. I love this man with all of my heart, but I just could not stay any longer and subject myself or my daughter to his crazy behavior when he was drunk. When he is sober he is totally oppsite,hes witty, and kind and lovable. I pleaded with him to please get help with his drinking, because I love him,and I want him to get help.,and I didn't want to leave, but he ave me no choice. He says that he loves us, and that we are his family and he misses us, but he still drinks every day. I don't want to go back because I know that he has not changed, but my heart hurts so bad. I want him to get help so that we can be a family again. I love him so much. OUCH! I don't know what to do. Do you understand?
2006-11-27
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