I happen to be blessed nautrally with 32D boobs but sometimes that blessing is a curse. Guys are always looking down, talking about them, and touching them on accident. How can I get them to stop?
When my friends are like I wish I was bigger you really don't guys are only paying attention to your boobs not you.
2006-11-27 13:13:29 · 17 answers · asked by blondebabyxoxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If they touch them on "accident" again-smack them on accident
2006-11-27 13:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by For sure 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a male I am sorry to say that I do that as well. Biology has wired us guys to look at young, healthy, pretty females. And unfortunately those parts of the female body that denote beauty and health are what we look at. Honestly we don't do it consciously, our male genetics leave us predisposed to doing this. No it is not the right thing to due, but this is what nature gave us to attract each other with for procreation purposes.
My suggestion to you is, if this is really bothering you, try dressing down a bit (if you haven't already), or confronting the offender.
2006-11-27 21:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by sto_243 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're just going to have to learn to live with men talking to your boobs and not looking you in the face.
I still have that problem, and I'm an adult that works in a professional environment. If it happens at work, I usually just cross my arms in front of them. Honestly, I don't think that some men know that they are doing it.
2006-11-27 21:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. I started "joking" with men saying Stuff like I'm up here and usually they were embarrassed enough to quit.. If they got really out of hand and wouldn't stop. I"m bad I will admit. I ask them to stand up and tighten their own clothes so I can check out their um package. That sure as anything gets them to stop.
Also wearing clothes that covers doesn't help. Been there done it. As even with them we bigger ladies stand out. Also why should we wear clothes cuz they can't control themselves.
2006-11-27 21:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by Karen K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have 34 DDD boobs. I absolutely hate it. When I catch people staring I try to make eye contact with them. I also wear minimizer bras and clothes that fit me which seem to make them look a little smaller.
2006-11-27 21:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Toadsputum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they accidentally touch them, then you should accidentally slap them. I'm sure they will never make that mistake again. As for guys staring, just tell them to look at your face and let them know if they aren't willing to talk to you instead of your breasts then you don't want to talk to them until they grow up.
2006-11-27 21:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by r_finewood 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear a clothes that not so tight so your boobs won`t come out to guys eye.
2006-11-27 21:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by vwar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may as well get used to it. Even the girls who have less than that get stared at. Guys just have to look at them.
2006-11-27 21:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
certain people only. i check tha whole body.... lol. jk. but personality for some guys is a quality they look for.. so.. youll find atleast one guy who respects whats in your head. not on your chest
2006-11-27 21:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by toreyjw1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry that happen to you but if you need a guy that like you for being a sweet and honest and cute girl just email me efrain78223@yahoo.com
2006-11-27 21:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋