BITCHY??? Mean??

Question

Is it mean of me to have said that I wouldn't go out with him, but would with his friend when he asked me out?? He really likes me but I really like his friend. The first few times he asked me out I politely said no, but this last time I said (See above) Was that mean?? He and I are good friends still but he still likes me. Why can't he take a hint?? Was it mean to say that??
Should he had given up?? He's still trying, but now I have started dating his friend.(he don't know) Should he stop??

I already have done the date 1 guy and his friend thing. Neither found out til I broke up with them both.

Answer 1

I think that you were honest. A little less bluntness would be nice, but some guys just can't get a hint and have to be told bluntly.

Answer 2

This is the time to come clean. I mean talk to him directly and tell him that you value him as a friend. And as a friend, u have to tell him that you are dating his friend as well. Emphasize aspects of your friendship and gauge his reaction. When u come clean like that, u are telling him where he stands, but still want to be friends. If he serious about being your friend first, then he should accept this. If not, then he wasn't in it for the friendship. The thing about being in a relationship is that it is a friendship but more on an intimate level then general friends. Good Luck and Cheers!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

You shouldnt have said you would date his friend to be honest. But you were TOTALLY in your right to tell him you are not interested. He will not get the hint until he figures out he has lost. Just continue seeing his friend and I would make it PUBLIC so he REALLY gets the hint!!! If he calls you a *****, he is just bitter. You are not bitchy to get what you want and being honest and upfront with what you dont want. You werent rude, you were being truthful. He needs to get over it.

Answer 5

Listen girl, you have done all that you could do. If he doesn't get it when you say it blutly now its on him. You've told him politely. So no you're not mean. Tell him that your dating the other friend. Tell him that you've been telling him that you don't like him in that way and don't want to date him and that you're trying to move on from this

Answer 6

Guys usually don't want to take hint, heck they don't even tune in when you're saying straight out. haha

Find him a hot girl. That should solve the problem. haha..seriously, that girl will distract him from continuing to pursuit you.

Answer 7

At least you were honest. Now let him know that you are dating his friend and maybe he'll get the hint.

Answer 8

Well y don't you just tell him how you see him as.
and it would be really mean of you if he found out his friend is going out with you. THAT'S NOT RIGHT, because friends are suppose to be friends and not stap them where it hurts, and it big and the size of his fist.

Answer 9

Tell him that your dating his friend, for him to stop and get the hint you need to tell him that!!

Answer 10

First let me emphisize this again...MEN DON'T TAKE HINTS. you must tell us outright and stop hinting. MEN NEVER WILL TAKE HINTS. We don't understand the need. we're simple creatures. Just tell us even if it's point blank...just tell us. Now to answer your question, Tell him how you feel tell him what you want and don't want where he is concerned.