Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

My mom is crazy. Now she says I can only do one load of laundry a month. I can't go to the laundry mat all the time. I'm poor. I work at Burger King. I'm looking for a 2nd job but have not been able to find one. My mom takes half my pay check for rent. The rest of my check is for car insurance and food. Then I have nothing left. I'm 18. I don't want to live with her anymore. What should I do?

2006-11-24 11:51:43 · 18 answers · asked by J 2 in Family

I'm 20 in college, and I have no friends outside my family, none whatsoever. I had a couple friends in highschool, but not good enough to keep in contact with i guess. There's a couple people I talk to sometimes at school, but other than that I often go a good part of the school day silent. In previous semsters i would go the entire day without saying a word to ANYONE. I've been pretty cool with being shy and lonley, but recently it's been making me have spells of sadness. Sometimes it gets so bad that i'm almost brought to tears trying to fall asleep.
Anyone ever have a similar experience.... or advice???

2006-11-24 11:50:17 · 15 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Friends

what should I do ?

2006-11-24 11:49:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think this kind of relationship is wrong? Is it possible in America to have this kind of relationship? Will this work only if one converts to the others beliefs and practices? Do you think you would ever try to exist in relationship that mixes both religions? What do you think would happen to children who are a result of such a relationship? Would this couple be accepted anywhere?

2006-11-24 11:49:48 · 9 answers · asked by blond raven 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a gymnast, surfer, dancer, lax player and I race cars. Before I raced this guy he would run half my workout with me(5miles) and his friends all said he liked me. I beat him and now he runs all 10 miles with me and talks to me a lot more at school. Wouldn't most guys give up cuz all they want is sex?? Wouldn't most guys be pissed they lost to a girl in a tricked out bmw, porsche, lexus, toyota, scion, or mitsubishi?? I am not all butch. I am not overlyfemimine either. Should I be happy he's still trying or wonder if he's like a stalker.

It all began a month ago. I like him but like to make guys work up the courage and ask me out.

Is he the norm.?? Should he be mad cuz he lost??

2006-11-24 11:49:33 · 11 answers · asked by Nicoletta 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I use to date in high school. We just went different ways. Four year later we found one another. We have been together ever since. Well he is in the Air Force and has been station to Korea for a year. He has been gone for a month already. I have been sending him post cards,letters, and greeting cards to let him know I am here. We also stay in touch thru myspace. I love this man. But sometimes I feel like I am doing to much. Am I over doing it? I wonder if he gets tired of seeing things from me? I don't want to be over whelming him? I have no idea what goes on over there or what is he thinking. Everytime we talk he is in a rush or sirons go off. Please help.

2006-11-24 11:49:08 · 6 answers · asked by jenny21gon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's always with his friends hes cheated on me once a year ago and weve been together for like five years. Now he never spends anytime with me he's always with his friends and I cant ever join them. Everyday he wakes up and calls them and stays gone...I sit at home and worry and cant stop thinking about it the whole entire time hes gone. Ive gone so far as calling him and begged him to spend time with me for once, and I yell at him. He never tells me what hes doing or whos there or anything. How can I get him to spend more time with me?

2006-11-24 11:48:45 · 8 answers · asked by Kimberly n 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in love with this guy and now i think he wants me back. i am in love with him but he has cheated on me in the past. but then again i wasn't around there i was stayin at a friends a half hour drive away. i just don't know what to do.

2006-11-24 11:47:51 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

I was just having a hard time with family and then lost my job. I just got really depressed and kinda pushed her away and she felt rejected.

About a month ago she told me that we should separate and see how things go. I tried to do everything I could to fix things. I got another job, I began planning dates for us and I was much more affectionate towards her. Things seemed to be going good, we were getting along better then I think we ever have, but she still said that she wanted us to separate.

So now I started to feel like she was just playing some sort of sick mind game with me so I got pissed off and picked a fight with her yesterday.

Today we were talking on the phone and I told her that I was ready to move out and that I just felt like things were over and it was best to move on. I could immediately tell that she got upset and then she made some sort of excuse to get off the phone and then she just hung up on me.

What does she want? Is she just messing with me?

2006-11-24 11:47:48 · 5 answers · asked by BWLJ 3 in Singles & Dating

i have invented a new procedure for women with butts that are too big. i call it the a s sectomy, where i surgically remove the excess baggage in her booty, and if necessary, redistribue that cargo to her breasts. it's all about evening out the load. what do you think?

2006-11-24 11:47:12 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. Nice 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel stupid now because I am asking all of these pathetic questions but I have nobody to talk to.+I need to get it off my chest. My mum is addicted to painkillers + has been for 10 years, she has been in and out of hospital with health problems relating to the adiction (ulcers, anemia, major organ failure, an eating disorder) Im 16 + I've never had many friends because I spend so much time staying at home cooking, cleaning looking after my mum. I've never really had a chance to be a proper teenager. Were really poor and somtimes I don't have money for bus fare or dinner, my mum is constanly sneaking out the little money we have to buy pills. I like in a really crappy poor area of liverpool and I just feel so so sad and lonely all the time and Im surrounded by drug addicts and people who come out of school with no qualifications and have a ton of kids. I just look into my future and I just know that Ill end of like the people around me, what can I do? I feel like Ive got no future

2006-11-24 11:46:00 · 19 answers · asked by Laura W 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you like your guy with a little beard? Or no hair on face?

2006-11-24 11:45:43 · 18 answers · asked by CPU 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a large room downstairs that has a lot of of arcade games like race cars and gun games. We have a lot of relatives staying with us and my husband took the boys (some of my nephews and younger male cousins) downstairs to play the games. Well, one of my nieces wanted to go down there but my husband said some of the games were too violent for women to play so he gave my mother some money to take the girls to a place where you can make pottery. I went as well and we had so much fun! :) However, my nieces mother which is my aunt thought that was wrong of him to do that. I didn't think anything about it being wrong. I have been down there a couple of times and some of those games with the guns on them are very scary and violent. I didn't like them at all. My father always taught me that women shouldn't be exposed to that kind of violence because it would upset them too much and that is a reason why only men fight in battles.

2006-11-24 11:45:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

teacher something but i hate her and i think that day was when i was sick and my mom made me go to school anyways but then my tummy was still hurting i came home and threw up the chocolate cake that kenny gave me in second period he isnt cute he looks like he never showers probaby from south park and smells dont u think that cartman is too fat he should lose some weight

2006-11-24 11:45:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Thanks for cheking my question out!!!! I think that I might like my cousin more than family!!! Lately I have been dreaming about him, and thinking about him non-stop!!!! I fantasice about me & him...........Well u get the picture!!!! Is that wrong to just think about it, or should I stop!!!! I mean I haven't told anybody, and nobody knows but me!!!! I really need help, because somewhere in my gut I know that this is just not right!!!

Love, Kiki

2006-11-24 11:43:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was with my friend and we went past this guy we know, we've known him for 3 years and he's such a big flirt he's always all over us, he's always grabbing our ***'s and feeling our legs but instead of grabbing our *** he pased infront of me and tried to grab in between my legs but missed.
what you do if that happened to you?

2006-11-24 11:43:17 · 11 answers · asked by kelcihrn 2 in Singles & Dating

I did and it didn't pan out for me. As a matter of fact, he never called me again, which surprised me because I always had men calling me for another date.
I was curious to what happen to others.

2006-11-24 11:43:01 · 3 answers · asked by SweetBrunette 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm studying abroad, and I think I've fallen in love with a great guy. However, we've never openly discussed our relationship -- it just went from platonic friends to flirting to kisses to making out. I feel really strongly for him -- I think he may be my first love -- but I don't know for sure how he feels. I really need to know, but I don't know how to ask him without jeopardizing the friendship; he is my closest friend here, and without him my last month here would be absolutely miserable.

I personally think I would be willing to enter a long-distance relationship with him, since getting to and from our respective countries is super easy and inexpensive, but I don't know how he would feel about this.

Please, anyone with any advice on how to bring this up and bring some closure to this relationship would be appreciated! I need specifics, like exact ways to ask -- I'm TERRIBLE with these things.

Thank you!

2006-11-24 11:42:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like dark chocolate or milk chocolate better???

2006-11-24 11:42:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering.... Im bored!

2006-11-24 11:42:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 11:42:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is in 8th and im in 6th

2006-11-24 11:41:56 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel L 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and ma boifriend have been goin' out 4 a long time. But I told him I'm a jealous type person and if he hugs another gurl I would be upset. He hug another gurl twice and when ma best friend caught him he gave her a some money so she wouldn't tell. What should I do? I don't wanna break up with him but I do. I'm confused.

2006-11-24 11:41:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been w my bf for almost 2 yrs. we are planning to get engaged this year. He grew quiet since 1 wk ago, & we both brush it off as stress at work. Finally, last nite we talked, & he said that he think we dont really have a lot in common& he is much older than me (9years difff). But when i ask him straight whether he still loves me, he said yes. He still love me so much, and he cried when he said that.
And no, nothing wrong with me at all; he said. We do get along so well, we like each other friends, our parents give their blessing too. So whats going wrong? He said he DOESNT EVEN KNOW WHAT MAKE HIM THINK WHETHER WE CAN BE TOGETHER IN THE LONG TERM. Since earlier relationship, he always said that i deserve better2, but i dont. I love him most.
Is culture makes the diff too? he is caucasian and im eurasian..
Please help

2006-11-24 11:41:41 · 6 answers · asked by AlisonJonshon 5 in Singles & Dating

My bf asked me to move in with him, and I hesitated. It was upsetting for him, because he went out on a limb to ask. Now, I'm thinking I want to do it, because I know he's the One. How should I approach the subject gently now, and so that he knows I'm serious and that we're on the same page?

2006-11-24 11:41:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I REALIZE THIS HAS GOT TO BE ONE OF THE STUPIDEST QUESTIONS!!!!! BUT

Ok, so Im not dating this woman but after working together on the setup of a event (we are not coworkers) ALL day she mentioned she was going to eat. I asked if she wanted company, she said yes. We ate dinner, had a drink, then played darts...WHICH WE BETTED ON... and i lost.....SOMEHOW!! we were there for hours!!! Anyway, im having a party on sat where there will be karaoke. She chose the stakes if i lost - i chose if i won. She wants me to karaoke sing a rap song wearing HER fake diamond "grill". (a mouth piece that covers the upper teeth with fake diamonds) She said she was going to fit it for me and everything..
Im doing it - as i dont go back on deals
Question is... since that involes a MOUTHPIECE being shared, the fact we had a dinner together, we flirted the whole time and we both had a great time.
ASSUMING IT FEELS RIGHT OF COURSE- Am i probably good to go for a kiss? Any feelings or suggestions??

2006-11-24 11:40:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was divorced about 2 years ago and have moved on..(he cheated and I couldnt forgive). I have met somebody and we are dating and things seem great. He even says he loves me but something bothers me...He doesnt even act like he would like to make love to me. Kisses are as far as it goes. I dont sleep around but I feel something is missing. I have even started to wonder if he is the right one or if I should stop things now before I really end up getting hurt. I know this sounds like a foolish problem but it is really worrying me,

2006-11-24 11:40:07 · 16 answers · asked by nascargirl216 2 in Singles & Dating

What makes a girl so sexy that you have to give it a second look... and what makes you want to go up and ask her for her number? What can make girls more Approachable?
would you date sexy or cute?
whatever help you can give please do

thanks

2006-11-24 11:39:22 · 9 answers · asked by songbirdchelsea 2 in Singles & Dating

For xmas..we live 15 min from mom and 15 from inlaw(i dont care to spen too much time there either. Okay for 15 years we have been going to both parents house.We are tired of spling up the day and want to saty hom with our 2 year old... We made it a must to saty home and have Thanksgiving every year at home. Now we want to do the same for xmas. we never get to stay home. we have to make sure to split up the time at ea parents fairly and so on. My mom and step dad have a terrible relationship and they dont speak to ea other yet my little12 year old brother is there. Then my grandma dosnt care too much about a gathering too and one of my aunts makes one at her house anyway.What do we do.what would you do??we just want to be home. we dont mind to go like two days b4 or xmas eve.

2006-11-24 11:39:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when u kiss someone, don't you close your eyes?

2006-11-24 11:39:06 · 20 answers · asked by shaypa 1 in Singles & Dating