I am a gymnast, surfer, dancer, lax player and I race cars. Before I raced this guy he would run half my workout with me(5miles) and his friends all said he liked me. I beat him and now he runs all 10 miles with me and talks to me a lot more at school. Wouldn't most guys give up cuz all they want is sex?? Wouldn't most guys be pissed they lost to a girl in a tricked out bmw, porsche, lexus, toyota, scion, or mitsubishi?? I am not all butch. I am not overlyfemimine either. Should I be happy he's still trying or wonder if he's like a stalker.
It all began a month ago. I like him but like to make guys work up the courage and ask me out.
Is he the norm.?? Should he be mad cuz he lost??
2006-11-24 11:49:33 · 11 answers · asked by Nicoletta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He asked me to homecoming but I said no cuz I was going with some1 else.
2006-11-24 11:52:45 · update #1
He's hot and sweet but my friend likes him, so when he asked me out this morning when I was going to practice was I right to say no??
2006-11-24 11:54:28 · update #2
His lost is someone else's gain. Believe it or not but most guys actually are looking for a companion that he can do many things together with and not just sex. Don't look at it as a bad thing. He is lucky to have you there to keep him challenge. You can win but don't rub it in by putting him down in front of his friends.
2006-11-24 11:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by steve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...not all guys are just after sex. Maybe he appreciates you more because you showed more personality than most chicks he's come across.
Typically, when a female gives up the sex fast, the guy's interest fades even he stays with her - but if she shows the ability to bring pleasure through other activities aside from sex, his interest will grow and be longer-lasting. But - that doesn't mean to hold off on the sex just to keep him tagging along, most guys give up after a while. It's like teasing a dog with a treat.
2006-11-24 11:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by silentwolfxvx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nic: He's in love with you. The fact he has you turned inside out with wonder, illustrates that he has you ... already and you are second guessing yourself. You two definitely are COMPATIBLE ...that's for certain. I know, I would get mad if I lost to a girl ... but his male ego takes a "back seat" to his fondness for you. This guy likes you ( a lot) and is willing to go that extra mile with you (no pun intended) ! If you have any reservations about him being a "stalker" ... go out with him to a public place i.e. restaurant, deli, coffee shop etc. ! You are lucky to have a guy with common interests as you have. You two will have PLENTY to talk about . Good luck to you Nicolette !!!! P.S. You were right to say "no" but get word back to him that you will take a "rain check" and would like to go with him soon.
2006-11-24 12:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just enjoy the attention of a guy who is comfortable standing with you?? Sounds like you may have someone who is more or less of a match for you. That's pretty cool, actually.
Not all guys get mad or turned on by losing. Sometimes it's irrelevant. And sometimes it maybe would turn them on because it's a girl who is more on their level.
2006-11-24 11:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jesse D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is persisting maybe he doesnt only want sex. that isnt what all guys want. if you are significantly younger than him it is but i doubt that. he might actualy want you because you two have that much in common and sees you as a girl he can be with because you would have something to do together and stuff to talk about. u should flirt with him and make him want you more s he will ask you out. sounds ot me like you two are compatable.
2006-11-24 11:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, i knew some guy who "hit her decrease back or push her because she began it" and that i will say that those "adult men"r susceptible and shallow and by no ability very secure kinds... those adult men r weaker than person-friendly adult men and that you'll be able to easily beat women... i advice u to RUN from such guy (which i did and dont experience sorry about it)
2016-11-29 10:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by binford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's your best answer- I think he really likes you. Just don't make him work too hard, or it will drive him away from you.
2006-11-24 11:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you will find any guy that is going to like you as much as you like yourself.
2006-11-24 11:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Cymbaline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey come on!
he liikes you as a friend - enjoy it!!
2006-11-24 11:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you post this yesterday?
2006-11-24 11:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋