He's always with his friends hes cheated on me once a year ago and weve been together for like five years. Now he never spends anytime with me he's always with his friends and I cant ever join them. Everyday he wakes up and calls them and stays gone...I sit at home and worry and cant stop thinking about it the whole entire time hes gone. Ive gone so far as calling him and begged him to spend time with me for once, and I yell at him. He never tells me what hes doing or whos there or anything. How can I get him to spend more time with me?
2006-11-24 11:48:45 · 8 answers · asked by Kimberly n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can say "hey i got pizza"
2006-11-24 11:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but it looks like you 5 year relationship is coming to an end. If you don't turn the tabels on him soon....your gonna go nuts. I know, i've been there. I was in 4.5 yr relationship and half way through it kinda got to th epoint of where your at now. Although he never cheated on me he was always gone. what i did, and it worked perfectly. I started doing the same thing. I started going out more with my friends, family, co-workers. I didn't blow his phone up every other hour trying to get him to talk to me. After a month or two he was begging me to spend more time with him. He missed me and was jealous that i had so much fun with my friends and not him that he wanted to be with me all the time.He has to see that you can be just fine and happy without him. Don't be home alone all the time cause then he knows your not going anywhere or doing anything cause he's not there. You have to go out and do stuff on your own. It will be hard at first cause he's not gonna come around after just a few days....it takes some time.
2006-11-24 12:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by ultrasexy_247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never heard of any guy spending everyday with their friends all day ... sounds like he might be cheating. Either way if it's causing you this much stress do you want to deal with him anymore? Since you've exhausted your efforts do not go begging him again it makes you look bad, and he less respect for you and does not feel sorry for doing it. You need to spend your time away from home and let him have his space, he'll start to wonder why if he cares. And plus it gives you something to do to get your mind off of it. Take a class, workout, go to a bookstore, meet new people. He'll wake up and see you go off and maybe he'll start thinking about how it feels to have someone do that to you. If not lose him 5 years is a lot time to invest in a person just be strong.
2006-11-24 11:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by LoveLeighe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a one way relationship. If he won't talk with you about it, cut your losses and dump him. If you want to show him. stop waiting for him and get your own life. Go out with your friends, go to museums, movies, the park, the gym anywhere but at home, when he asks where you've been, tell him out......give him some of his own medicine. If this does not peak his interests, then you really don't have a relationship at all.
2006-11-24 11:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are about as low can go its time to get a life and move on this guy is a jerk and you staying doesn't help you self worth
2006-11-24 11:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his own space he needs and sometimes do something romantic and sweet and he WILL stay at home with you, trust me!
2006-11-24 11:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by celia3018 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt even have to read all of it to tell u to get rid oof the queer
2006-11-24 11:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up....
2006-11-24 11:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋