My boyfriend and I use to date in high school. We just went different ways. Four year later we found one another. We have been together ever since. Well he is in the Air Force and has been station to Korea for a year. He has been gone for a month already. I have been sending him post cards,letters, and greeting cards to let him know I am here. We also stay in touch thru myspace. I love this man. But sometimes I feel like I am doing to much. Am I over doing it? I wonder if he gets tired of seeing things from me? I don't want to be over whelming him? I have no idea what goes on over there or what is he thinking. Everytime we talk he is in a rush or sirons go off. Please help.
2006-11-24 11:49:08 · 6 answers · asked by jenny21gon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, first of all congrats on finding each other again.
You can never do to much for him while he is over there. My husband, is over there also but he is in the Army. He has been gone for 8 months and he has to serve 18months there. Keep on what your doing. That is what keeps those guy's going. Knowing, that they have someone back at home caring for them thinking about them and waiting for them to come home. There going to fight there hardest so they can get home sooner to be with that person. So, Hun you are doing everything right. Your not over doing yourself. Keep sending lots of pictures, spray your perfume on them so he can smell you so he can think at night your right by his side. Send him little packages with cookies and little things that he can keep with him to remind him of you. So, best of luck to you Hun and your boyfriend.
2006-11-24 12:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Cherries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, my brother is in the Marines and I totally get it. When my brother talks to me I feel like he rushes off too. But the truth of the matter is that they don't have a whole lot of time. Military is such a devoting job that they don't have alot of free time. It feels like their rushing becuase they have so much to cover, but only in a short amount of time. So I say, keep sending letters, cards and chatting through Myspace. Just keep what your doing don't slow down or speed up, if he doesn't want to talk to you, I think he would tell you. Keep it up. Good luck :]
2006-11-24 11:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by SaveEggsCrackSmiles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letters from you are his life's blood. All the guys wait with such high hopes @ mail call. You just keep writing, write every day or as much as you can. Believe me, it does his heart good and you're home to him right now. Keep those letters and IM'S coming.
2006-11-24 11:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a military therapist, keep doing what you are doing. It is so hard to be in the service and have a relationship. Be true to him and stay in touch, even though it is a difficult lifestyle. Good luck and God Bless.
2006-11-24 15:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Jenny,
My cousin is in the Corpsmarine and his girl is here. When I last talked to him he told me how he loved hearing from her even if he never had time to write back. He feels bad that he can't write as much as she does. But I know he enjoys having someone who loves them sending them stuff.
2006-11-24 11:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Justic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I e-mailed my friends son every day he was in the service, nothing long, just a note to let him know he wasn't forgotten. He really appreciated the e-mails. Just keep doing what your doing.
2006-11-24 11:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋