i am in love with this guy and now i think he wants me back. i am in love with him but he has cheated on me in the past. but then again i wasn't around there i was stayin at a friends a half hour drive away. i just don't know what to do.
2006-11-24 11:47:51 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been there and done that. Are you willing to forgive him? Dont take him back if you dont. Can he gain his trust back from you? If not It wont be worth it because, youl'l constantally think that hes cheating on you...and if he really isnt than it'll scare him away. He will think your too controling. Dont worry so much about him cheating again just forgive him, It will make the relationship worth while. Because you worrying about isnt going to prevent it from happening it will just bring stress to your relationship. But, If you truly love him and your willing to forgive and forget then go for it. If not than dont waste your time thiers plenty of guys who ARE loyal to their girlfriends out there for you.
Good Luck Sweetie!
2006-11-24 11:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! Why do you "think" he wants you back? Either he does or doesnt. Cheating may be forgiveable once (and basically to make up for it if you want steak at 3am, they better cook it for you! they have A LOT of making up/butt kissing to do!)
Cheating more than once, I really don't think I would go back to him. Yes, you love him. but its hard when you love someone that doesnt love you back. if he was sincere about his love for you, he wouldnt have cheated on you in the first place.
It is extremely difficult to move on and say okay, im done. And you will sit there and try to convince yourself that he wont do it again and think about all of the things that he does do that are great...are there more pros than cons? AND do some of those weigh heavier than others?
2006-11-24 11:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Amy*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Stay away from that idea of getting back with him. Think of why he wants to get back with you. I guarantee he has no one right now and you are his comeback to girl. It would be setting you up for disaster because when he finds a new girl he will jump in bed with her. And it doen't matter how far away you lived cheating is cheating. Half an hour is not that far and it doesn't constitute cheating
2006-11-24 11:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by madamoiselle_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be good to be just a friend to this person and let them be free. Be there when he needs you without disrespecting yourself and he'll know where he can go when he's lonely. Maybe one day he'll stay. Godloveya.
2006-11-24 11:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated on you once he will do it again!!!half an hr away is not far for true love not far at all...you'll be better off with out him!!!
2006-11-24 11:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by cristina v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you there is a great possibility he will do it again, move on for your health and dignity!
2006-11-24 11:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by Zorro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋