I'm studying abroad, and I think I've fallen in love with a great guy. However, we've never openly discussed our relationship -- it just went from platonic friends to flirting to kisses to making out. I feel really strongly for him -- I think he may be my first love -- but I don't know for sure how he feels. I really need to know, but I don't know how to ask him without jeopardizing the friendship; he is my closest friend here, and without him my last month here would be absolutely miserable.
I personally think I would be willing to enter a long-distance relationship with him, since getting to and from our respective countries is super easy and inexpensive, but I don't know how he would feel about this.
Please, anyone with any advice on how to bring this up and bring some closure to this relationship would be appreciated! I need specifics, like exact ways to ask -- I'm TERRIBLE with these things.
Thank you!
2006-11-24 11:42:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LIKE THIS HEY YOU EVER READ ROMEO AND JULIET , WELL YOU SEE THEY WERE FRIENDS FOR MANY YEARS , THEN BEST FRIENDS THEY LOVED EACH OTHERS COMPANY THAT THEY BECAME LOVERS , ( NOW YOU SAY ) WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT PEOPLE BECOMING LOVERS AFTER BEING BEST FRIENDS FOR A LONG TIME . DO YOU THINK THIS WOULD WORK FOR ANYONE ? DEPENDING ON THE ANSWER , ASK HIM DO YOU THINK WE BEING BEST FRIENDS COULD BE LOVERS FROM A DISTANCE DO YOU BELIEVE IT WOULD WORK FOR US ? ( LET HIM THINK ) DON'T PRESSURE HIM OR YOU'LL LOOSE HIM . I HOPE THIS HELPS.!
2006-11-24 11:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by I'M JUST TRYING TO HELP YOU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine's daughter just moved to Ireland to see if her relationship would go anywhere. She loves him, but doesn't know if marriage is in the cards, so she went to give the relationship more time. Talk to him, tell him how you feel and see if he would be willing to see where this relationship will go. good luck.
2006-11-24 11:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt like that about my best friend he said he don't feel the same way...but he is glad that we have a close friendship...if this guy is a true friend if u tell and he says no dint feel that way i want to remain friends what have you lost? tell him
2006-11-24 11:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋