Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

on sept 27 i gave birth to a beautiful lil girl. my fiance was with me the whole time from noon til i had her at 729pm after he feed the baby he left that made me look bad in my moms eyes she said he's not very affectinate and why did he leave we're both in our 30s. well all thru oct he had been very distant from me when i needed him the most thru post pardum. finally he told me he was disappointed with me cuz i had been late paying my bills while i was on maternity leave. he said y did't i tell him so he could help me he say i let my pride get in the way. he pays his on time.anyway he won't hug me i'm a pretty girl he won't touch me let alone kiss me. i just started back to work my debt will be cleared up next month nothin major. i just want to know is this a reason to withhold affection from me he gives it to our daughter everyday could it really be about my bills or do you think it may b someone else he says it isn't he's just disappointed is it really that deep please help

2006-11-22 19:50:34 · 11 answers · asked by k2u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF eve teases , drinks and smokes But says he loves me But does'nt cares for me Wat shud I do . Shud I Die bcoz I cant leave him

2006-11-22 19:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by fancy 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a senior person who has my son living with me he is very abusive to me does not contribute to the household expenses and will not leave when asked to

2006-11-22 19:47:52 · 26 answers · asked by sad sack 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am currently divorced, i have 5 children. i haven't had 2 work in 6 years, now that its just me and my children, i'm afraid of taking that first step of getting my ged and going back 2 school to pursue my nurseing. i fear failing my ged test, i fear wondering if i will make it. i sit around sometimes asking the question "why me", there are many nights i cry hoping that the necessities of my home will be provided. i am a strong believer in christ and i know he will see me through. but how do i get over this feeling of fear of succeeding in life now that i'm divorced, have 5 children to raise, go to work go to school, actually make something of myself. i just get so confused sometimes, i want 2 be happy, i want 2 succeed. i know all my questions wont be answered but can someone just give me some kind of advice i can take heed to?

2006-11-22 19:45:41 · 11 answers · asked by brownsuga 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl and she is a goth and I don`t know how to say the right words. Any auther tips are wellcome :D

2006-11-22 19:43:41 · 27 answers · asked by Dark Katz 1 in Singles & Dating

he sits in front of me in the lecture and i wanna know wether hes intrested in me or not coz im not sure!!!! any thoughts ???

2006-11-22 19:40:56 · 5 answers · asked by dana 1 in Friends

it is very often that when a younger guy asks a older girl out, she rejects. sometimes, the girl really does like the guy but still she rejects because she is older than him. what's wrong with an older girl dating a younger guy? as long as they like each other right?

2006-11-22 19:38:21 · 21 answers · asked by Gina L 1 in Singles & Dating

I wonder if it limits some part of my emotional stability/health as a teenager(even though i have an old soul if to say). Really i admit i am not your regular average teenager, but i honestly can relate to adults rather well than my peers. I appreciate any input, thank you.

2006-11-22 19:38:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Lost contact with old friends due to moving and changing jobs. Have great boyfriend but feeling a little lonely. (And a little like a loser) I saw another persons question to which everyone replied get a hobby. So what are peoples hobbies?

I know you'll say find something I enjoy, but would like to know what other people are doing out there for hobbies, for ideas.

Thanks

2006-11-22 19:36:52 · 24 answers · asked by nycgrl 2 in Friends

I have noticed lately that less peoople in chat rooms chat to me? I have been chatting in one room for six years. It hurts me!

2006-11-22 19:35:02 · 11 answers · asked by thepurplewheelie60 1 in Friends

i like this girl im my class, we've never really talked, how do i approach her and wat do i say to her without being wierd or very anxious

2006-11-22 19:33:44 · 13 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends having a party. should i wear a skirt so i can drop it like its hot or jeans!!! help!!! keep in mind i'm a shaking some booty!!

2006-11-22 19:31:21 · 9 answers · asked by ghetto fabolous 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking of whether or not I should txt this guy I have been talking on the phone w/ alot right now. I'm not sure if he is upset w/ me or he just decided not to talk to me any more. What to do?

2006-11-22 19:30:57 · 4 answers · asked by lil one 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-22 19:29:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 19:29:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-22 19:25:53 · 7 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 19:25:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 19:24:25 · 10 answers · asked by nicole_elise88 1 in Friends

2006-11-22 19:24:03 · 9 answers · asked by ahnnah 1 in Friends

I don't want to pry but why is it alot of married women refused to cook for their husbands on holidays they would rather go to someone else house to eat. And do you think that the husbands ever get tired of this?

2006-11-22 19:22:30 · 17 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4 in Marriage & Divorce

a simpe question but I am very curious, which is the drink of the "world" ??? Expecting some witty replies, lol !!!

2006-11-22 19:21:31 · 40 answers · asked by Software_pro 2 in Friends

2006-11-22 19:21:13 · 15 answers · asked by tanuja g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf's cousin is staying at his house for thxgiving.i can tell there really close but she is really starting to annoy me, when ever she sees me she says somthing to my bf in italian and he just messes up her hair.and tell her it rude to do that.instead of calling me my name she calls me person or that girl.it really pisses me off.ileft his house just to get away from her. and i cant not be there for thxgiving because he asked me to help him out cuz its the first time hes had to have his family at his house.
what should i do ???

i asked him to tell me whats shes saying but all he says is you wouldnt like it.
so one of his exs who apparently knew spanish and had to deal with his cosin be for said that she could sort out some of what shes saying such as "sluty little b*cth" or " f*cking skank *ss wh*re". shes pissing me off and i dont know how to tell him he can be so defensive and a hot head.

2006-11-22 19:18:32 · 9 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 19:15:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this is so horrible for me to even ask, but what is the best way to get revenge on an ex who you dated for 3 years, who now treats you like s**t everytime he gets a chance, and i know it has to be on purpose? He seems to have no jealousy whatsoever by the way, so its not like i could just start dating someone else and that would do it. I know I could just stop talkin to him all together, but that will not accomplish what i want at this point

2006-11-22 19:09:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 19:08:39 · 2 answers · asked by amina1 1 in Singles & Dating

We broke up but he insisted for us to still bcome friends. I gave in coz I couldnt let him go. He knew from the start that I still love him yet he teases me, flirts with me, we occassionally hold hands and kiss, & he tells me stories of his newfound love affairs. I tolerate everything coz I love him still. Yet he only sees me as his bestfriend (cz he said I was d only one who knew him too well).

When I asked some space and time from him coz I need to move on & I cant do that while I'm having him around. He told me he understood but he wont do it coz he cant & its hard for him not to talk to me anymore. Im really confused!!!

2006-11-22 19:08:00 · 20 answers · asked by ahnnah 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 19:03:41 · 21 answers · asked by maudlin 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been chatting to this man online, and we have talked on the phone. We get on well i have really long conversations with him. Hes forty years old and never wanted children. He says he liked older children but not young ones, well i have my grandson living with me and hes 6. I told him this.
My son says hes like his dad and his girlfriend selfish sort of people who do not like to share, well i ws going to meet him tonight but this has totally put me off, i want to meet a man who likes kids. its really strange to me not normal, i think hes been very spoilt, he likes to be the only one in someone,s life. He,s goes on about material things alot his house what hes getting, i get sick of it.

2006-11-22 19:00:19 · 18 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Singles & Dating