We broke up but he insisted for us to still bcome friends. I gave in coz I couldnt let him go. He knew from the start that I still love him yet he teases me, flirts with me, we occassionally hold hands and kiss, & he tells me stories of his newfound love affairs. I tolerate everything coz I love him still. Yet he only sees me as his bestfriend (cz he said I was d only one who knew him too well).
When I asked some space and time from him coz I need to move on & I cant do that while I'm having him around. He told me he understood but he wont do it coz he cant & its hard for him not to talk to me anymore. Im really confused!!!
2006-11-22 19:08:00 · 20 answers · asked by ahnnah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a bad situation. If the relationship is over, and he has had his interests somewhere else, and moved on intimatly with others, its only fair to allow you the saem.
On the same hand, you need to accept its over, and stand up for yourself and end it all together, as its greed on his part, and unfair to you. You have the right to move on, and the "friends" thing is not whats going on if he wont allow you the space you need.
Just as he had the right to go on, so do you, and too bad if he doesnt like it. Love, yes is Ok, but its not going to work based on that alone. If he truelly cared about you, he would not put such a stipulation on your needs.
2006-11-22 19:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie ,, this guy is taking u for granted .. y r u buying this crap.. No babes u donn deserve this . I know wut m saying is difficult to take . but luv ,, this is ur life .. Move on ..the is someone waiting 4 u out there.. He is seeing other gals .. So what r u waiting for.????????? Wake up and smell the roses .. This is a wake call for 4 u my luv .. I am a girl n i know how it feels . Wish u luck
2006-11-22 19:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question. He'll keep you around as long as you spread your legs for him.
Find yourself another before you lose YOUR self-respect. You're better than that!
Have a Happy Thanksgiving and forget him!
2006-11-22 19:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by BadBill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
Thanks for the 2 points
2006-11-22 19:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just need space. If he's a good friend he'll give it to you.
Believe me, you could be in for real heartbreak here.
2006-11-22 19:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by skunked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not love .You need to live with someone for a year for a you will know.You need to find new frogs to kiss
2006-11-22 19:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your hangout joints and phone number he will get the message
2006-11-22 19:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by babes28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he loves you but isn't ready for comitment, guys are weird
2006-11-22 19:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by BubbleyChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so. Love should be both parties.
2006-11-22 19:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by bytep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants you as a friend.If you can't do that then move on.
2006-11-22 19:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋