my bf's cousin is staying at his house for thxgiving.i can tell there really close but she is really starting to annoy me, when ever she sees me she says somthing to my bf in italian and he just messes up her hair.and tell her it rude to do that.instead of calling me my name she calls me person or that girl.it really pisses me off.ileft his house just to get away from her. and i cant not be there for thxgiving because he asked me to help him out cuz its the first time hes had to have his family at his house.
what should i do ???
i asked him to tell me whats shes saying but all he says is you wouldnt like it.
so one of his exs who apparently knew spanish and had to deal with his cosin be for said that she could sort out some of what shes saying such as "sluty little b*cth" or " f*cking skank *ss wh*re". shes pissing me off and i dont know how to tell him he can be so defensive and a hot head.
2006-11-22 19:18:32 · 9 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know you wouldnt have to ask us what you should if only your boyfriend stands up for you?! what is ur bfs problem? if its true dat dey are realy close, then he should be able to make dat b*(&^* shut up!! dont take this from his cuzin u dont deserve it! and if ur bf doesnt stand up for u after u told him how u feel abt his cuzin den tell him to get wid his cuzin instead! hahaha just kiddin` =D .. but yeah ... kick this guy to d curve if he doesnt say anything to his cuzin!! =D good luck and dont waste ur thanks giving about his cuzin!! its not worth it!! =D
2006-11-22 19:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by mizz ADOHRable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lsn apparently family really means something to him so dont give him an ultimatum. Just talk to him abou t how you feel and maybe you culd be extra affectionate with him whlie shes at the house you know remind he that hes your boyfrend. Ignore her is all that you can do. Best of luck
2006-11-23 03:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by tennis*star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of think the issue really is not the cousin, but your bf's respone to the behavior of his cousin. There is a quote by Maya Angelou says, "When people show you who they are, believe them". He is showing you who he is. I believe love is what it does and not what it says. if he is nt willing ot defend your honor regardless of it being his cousin there is a concern. I don't think any self respecting mature man woudl aloow the person he reports heh loves to be disrespected by friend, strangers, or family, if he really loves her. Time to eval. the relationship and not the cousin. B/c after the cousin leaves, there be someone esle that will attempt to disrespect you in his presence and he will brush that off to.... Ask yourself are you entitled to scraps or someone whole.
2006-11-23 03:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
such a b*tch... i would tell my bf how i feel about her mistreatment of me and i would tell my bf that the next time he didn't side me or be stern with her, i'ld walk out and dump him on the spot (make sure you tell him everything seriously and get an answer from him to show that you aren't playing a fool and that the situation is NOT funny).
gd luck :)
2006-11-23 03:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what she says or in what language, smile, smile, smile....... evidently she is jealous of you for some strange reason....... use it to your advantage..... laugh at everything she says, not out loud, my kinda a smirkie laugh, low to your self laugh..... do NOT let her know it bothers you at all.. kiss your b/f everytime she talks...... show her you are there to stay and that you are not imtimidated by her..... rofl, she will soon grow bored with the whole thing or make an ummmm, donkeys rear of herself...... God bless
2006-11-23 03:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to simply ignore her and remember that she won't be there long. Also, every time she does it, walk up to him and kiss or hug him in a Big way and maybe she'll stop just to get you to stop.
2006-11-23 03:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his a s s for not sticking up for you.
2006-11-23 03:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by devildoll502 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
slap that bi*ch. then turn around and smack him for lettin her talk bout you!!!!
2006-11-23 03:23:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
better speak with your friends more
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2006-11-23 03:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋