i like this girl im my class, we've never really talked, how do i approach her and wat do i say to her without being wierd or very anxious
2006-11-22 19:33:44 · 13 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You go near her when she's not surrounded by people who are paying attention to her (or you), come right up next to her (like you're gonna' talk to her!), and say, "Hi...would you like to go for a coke or something?" Then slowly inhale (with your lips shut, so she won't notice you trying to catch your breath again) deeply, if she says yes, ask her what 2 of her favorite places are (to choose from), if she says no, smack her upside the head. KIDDING! If she says no, just take it like it's a buddy who's busy at the moment. Say, "okay, see ya' " and be on your merry way.
Both genders are nervous about their roles and behaviors, it isn't easier for one than the other. Stay calm, nobody knows the tension you feel on the inside, nobody can read your mind.
Good luck, if she doesn't respond, keep your eyes open for another likely candidate.
2006-11-22 19:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ask her if she wrote down some notes you may have missed or an assignment, something like that. If you don;t like that, you can try some corny pick up line that u know is funny. Then when she looks at you crazy u can say" I was just messing with you", I just wanted the opportunity to speak to you, I notice you in class and wanted ot introduce myself. (smile) I think it will work out, but whatever you do sweety be yourself, because o on ein the whole world can beat u being u!! PRay and ask God to help you in intriducing yourself to the young lady and I promise he will help you.
2006-11-23 03:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I like when guys just wave and smile the first time.
Then next time you see her walk over and say hi. Be friendly and act casual. If this is your first time talking to her, then ask her some questions about herself. Such as her name. Be complimenting and tell her something like shes pretty, trust me she wont think you're lame if anything she'll think you're a sweetie and really like the compliment.
2006-11-23 03:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH us girls go through that all the time. Just be friendly, ask her what shes doing over the weekend ect ect. Be normal!!! you need to gain a friendship first i think. She needs to get to know you, and most important you need to get to know her. She could be the most boring girl out or she could be real sweet. you need to know for your own sake too
2006-11-23 03:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by I wonder 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aight first you got to be confident about your self if your not, you will make a fool of your self, 2 dont try any pick up line talk to her about something that you know she likes and just try to be a lil bet funny, and 3 never chase her around
2006-11-23 03:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by bryan s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well....if she is not interested in you;......anything you say or do to approach her will seem like a joke or game to her....i would play it safe and tell a friend to tell her that you are interested.....if she is not....then you dont have to be present to take the blow...ya know what i mean?
2006-11-23 03:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When she get into some problem, try to help her, she may appreciate and you may happy with this.
2006-11-23 03:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lai Yu Zeng 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to library and get some books
Bye
2006-11-23 03:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
an inviting simile would do and then engage her in talk
2006-11-23 03:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by mikejolyemsegun2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her if she understood the homework, then go from there
2006-11-23 03:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by KitKat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋