2006-11-22 19:24:25 · 10 answers · asked by nicole_elise88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!
Been there. Done that. Bought the T-shirt and gave it to Salvation Army! That was the biggest mistake of my adult life. She turned out to be one serious psycho B I T C H from H E L L!
You never know what a person is really like until you live with them. And trust me, I wish I had never found out. We don't work together any more. I moved up the ladder ahead of her and she took it personal. Like I did it just to make myself look better than her, when I actually did it because it pays more.
Don't mix business and personal. It only spells disaster.
2006-11-22 19:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is more important is why she needs someone to move in with her. Does she pay her rent on time or will you end up having to pay for her? Is she a slob, and will you have to clean up behind her? Does she socialize with unsavory people, and will you have to deal with their having access to your residence?
I could go on and on, but I'll let it suffice that you need to find out about your workmate's reputation. Postpone the move until you are sure about her. Not doing so could cost you dearly--not only financially, but also emotionally, and maybe even physically (if things get rough, you could get hurt).
You might not have a thing to worry about, but you need to confirm that with a little research. You can start with her. Ask her where she lives? Then show up unexpectedly to see what her place looks like. Check with the rental office to find out whether there have been any complaints about her. Ask her whether she's shared a place with anyone else. If she has, then ask why the other people left. Her response to that question might be very revealing. If so, try to find out how to contact the other person to get both sides of the story.
To net it out. Be careful. You could be walking into something you don't want any part of. When I was younger, I agreed to let someone from work share my place. Big mistake. A few months into the arrangement, he asked whether his uncle (a war veteran) could stop by on this way to get medical treatment at an upstate veteran's hospital. Fine I said. Six months later, he was still with us. He'd found a new home. He slept on the livingroom couch. He was an alcoholic. After that, he asked whether his brother could stop by. Same thing, except that his brother wasn't an alcoholic. He just liked to fight all the time. So they would get into serious fights, and often end up tumbling down the exterior steps from the second floor to the first floor. Neighbors complained, and we got evicted.
2006-11-23 03:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not if you both get along! And it will be cheaper then renting a place by yourself. You should set some rules down tho so there are no misunderstandings later on. Like who is responsible for what domestic duties, are you both going to buy your own food or are you going to go in on that together, etc., etc.. Good luck with it whatever you decide! *hugs* JAC<
2006-11-23 03:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by jackaboo007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not sure how she owns a house if she is only 2???? But, i spose if you want to be making bottles, changing diapers, packing up toys and feeding her then go right ahead.
2006-11-23 03:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, Find a compatible nice person
2006-11-23 03:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by bytep 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2? Sweatshop? Slave labor?
2006-11-23 03:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah, if she is 2, you'll always be changing diapers, and breastfeeding, etc., don't do it.
2006-11-23 03:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do what feels right for u
2006-11-23 03:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure it would be great.
2006-11-23 04:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by theojunkie40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not???
2006-11-23 03:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋