2006-11-22 19:24:03 · 9 answers · asked by ahnnah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Being in a situation similar to this has never been a very good idea to begin with. People who are into it might say otherwise but that is only because they can only see the short-term effects of it but never the long-term.
It defiles both the individuals involved, and not just one. WHY?
Sex and intimacy has never been intended by God to be shared by two individuals outside of marriage for reasons that are already known to us but something we decided to ignore just the same thinking that God is just a killjoy and is all about sucking all the fun in the things that we do or want to do (I can just hear all the boos by making this bold statement).
If people would just pause for a while and ponder this, when did premarital sex -- even with your friends -- brought something really wonderful and something you can be proud to say even to your parents huh?
2006-11-22 20:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Alias G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you don't fall in love with this person because when you do and it's only about the sex basically then it's a ugly situation. Because it's like you knew the drill from the start and most of the times anything else isn't even an option. It can really make you depressed if you start to like this person other than friends with benefits and that's all it's about with him. You'll probably have to deal with the fact that you regret ever doing it if it comes to stronger feelings. Which chances are it will.
2006-11-23 03:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how you feel about it. having a friend with benefits is your choice and you decide how long you will keep up with it. you decide who and how. youre in control.
the only time i think its negative is if you only use that person to escape life for a little while as your own way of coping. its negative because you are not respecting your body.
2006-11-23 03:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one male friend like that. At the beginning, we were just best friends of each other. However, we got closed and undestood each other so well. And it happened, actually it's been seven years already. He and me also have our own relationship with other people. It's OK if you can control your mind not to be hurt by that. I don't sleep with him when I have bf though.
2006-11-23 03:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone is usually being used in this kind of situation. Usually one wants more than just sex, but the other doesn't want to date the other exclusively. This is just from my own experiences.
2006-11-23 03:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by St. Toad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex in the sanctity of marriage is the best benefit.
2006-11-23 03:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by BEAUTIFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty bad if only one of yas fall in love with the other
2006-11-23 03:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing negative as long if there are no feelings involve.
2006-11-23 03:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's with your EX - don't do it!
2006-11-24 20:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by celia3018 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋