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it is very often that when a younger guy asks a older girl out, she rejects. sometimes, the girl really does like the guy but still she rejects because she is older than him. what's wrong with an older girl dating a younger guy? as long as they like each other right?

2006-11-22 19:38:21 · 21 answers · asked by Gina L 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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There's nothing wrong if he's of age. But i had this experience and we seen each other for 9 yrs. and the fear that most women have with dating a younger guy is that he will soon realize all of the younger women he could be with and really don't want to be in a relationship anymore. Because once women get to that certain age we're looking for someone for the long haul someone to grow old with and someone to take care of you when that sick day comes. And you stop to think this person is very young and just wants to have fun and see what it's like with an older woman and that's not what most older women are looking for that kind of stuff sort of strays you away from a man that's too young.

2006-11-22 19:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1 0

Any female who rejects a nice guy just because of the age difference is too bloody shallow for me! Not only did I date older girls, I married one! It lasted through twenty years and four kids...

2006-11-22 19:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Nothing. I have been married to my wife for 18 years. I'm 54 she's 64. Depends on how you get along. Anniversary date 8/8/88 is whenwe got married and still together. You make it that long and then you'll lnow what I mean.

Good Luck and Happy Thanksgiving!

All relationships take work...Rememeber that!

2006-11-22 19:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by BadBill 3 · 3 0

I think age is no barrier. But girls tend to think that the younger the guy the less financial and emotional stability. A girl wants to be the one to be cared for. not the other way round. Its the way its been for centuries. even when the world began. I think times do need to change

2006-11-22 19:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by I wonder 1 · 2 0

I think its because some women think its not appropriate to date a younger man. Sometimes women cares about what other people thinks. they might think its taking advantage of the younger man. Or the guy might not take the relationship seriously.

2006-11-22 19:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by ozma 1 · 3 0

It's fine, but if shes like wayyy older than you then I'd suggest finding someone closer to your age.
Because she is probably wayyy more mature and has way more experience. I think that can affect how you act in your relationship.

2006-11-22 19:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 1 0

Absolutely nothing wrong.
I've dated a guy two years younger than me. He's my first love. He used to treat me like a queen and we're still good friends.

2006-11-22 19:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

There's nothing wrong with that except girls prefer to date mature guys, even though its not necessarily true we think older = more mature

2006-11-22 19:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy in love 1 · 2 0

nothing as long as it is within reason cuz I have been hit on by 45 year old women and I am 21. It's scary and wrong when that happens.

2006-11-22 19:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by Ben V 3 · 3 0

Nothing wrong with it, 80% of my girlfriends are all older than me.

2006-11-22 19:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by Rollercoaster 4 · 2 0

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