I know this is so horrible for me to even ask, but what is the best way to get revenge on an ex who you dated for 3 years, who now treats you like s**t everytime he gets a chance, and i know it has to be on purpose? He seems to have no jealousy whatsoever by the way, so its not like i could just start dating someone else and that would do it. I know I could just stop talkin to him all together, but that will not accomplish what i want at this point
2006-11-22 19:09:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sleep with his dad. That should do it.
2006-11-22 19:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by skunked 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is..no revenge. Your focus should not be on him anymore, He is no longer your boyfriend so you don't have to be treated like sh*t and probably only are being treated that way because you are still trying to be in his presence. Stop calliing him, his friends, etc... Focus on being a better "you". When he sees you have moved on and are no longer affected by the break up and not trying to get revenge on him because he doesn't matter that much to you.. He will probably try to come back around. Then the ball will be in your court and THAT is the revenge. .
2006-11-22 19:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by itsreen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge you can have is to not think of him. If you run into him be cordial but brief. By dwelling on getting revenge on him you are giving him control of your life. Do you really want to look back in 2 years and say that he still controlled you even AFTER you broke up??
2006-11-22 19:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by knite_hawk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm I don't mean to sound stupid! But you mention EX'S b/f
So why are you still having contact with this person? Thus having to deal with him treating you like crap? Do you have kids together? Do you work at the same place? You didn't mention as to why you need to deal with this jerk?
Whats revenge got to do with someone that's your ex's (meaning no longer! gone! by, by,
I have female friends that would like my help in making there ex's boyfriend jealous.... I don't mind.. cause i think it's funny!
Anyways I might have just answer your question about revenge
2006-11-22 19:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by FLEXizme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge isn't the answer, because it gives the EX even more control over you. the best way to do it is just by moving on with your life and not letting him get to you.
2006-11-22 19:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Grieve in privacy and with others who support you. The single best thing you can do is to not let him know that you are struggling. Be friendly, but not too much. Get on with your life and find someone who reallly cares for you. Put your energy into improving your life, not getting revenge.
2006-11-22 19:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think for one second that he doesn't get jealous .Everyone and I do mean everyone gets jealous about something.If you stop talking to him it will accomplish more then you think it will.And by the way why did the two of you brake up in the first place.Could that have something to do with the way he is treating you.
2006-11-22 19:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the BEST revenge would be to walk away with dignity and not even bother about him for one more second...I mean it! Think about it: revenge takes time and effort and energy and thought and in the end of the day it says, "I have spent effort, energy, time etc on you" when all you really want to say is "I am not wasting another second on you." thats real revenge: to show him that you are super cool and super fine without his lame a*s. walk away babe...and that way you get to keep your pride and dignity.
2006-11-22 19:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No jealousy, then I guess sleeping with his best friend wouldn't do it. What's really important to him? Take that away and make him suffer for a little while. I don't mean like a Lorena Bobbit thing, I just mean emotionally.
2006-11-22 19:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best revenge is to move on with your life and start liking someone else he may not get jealous but it will bother him that he has no control over you what so ever. works everytime=D!!!
2006-11-22 20:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not SWEET as most people believe - it always leaves someone bitter. Forgiveness is better for it makes everyone happy.
However, if you must 'revenge' then show more love and ignore any considered attempt to spite or despise your person.
Good luck.
2006-11-22 19:23:37 · answer #11 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋