Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

I've been dating my boyfriend for 3.5 months. Our relationship has been AMAZING. He loves me, I love him, etc. However, yesterday, he told me that he's been thinking about his ex recently (as in the last week). He says he knows for sure that he loves me, and he also knows that he's really happy with me. However, he doesn't want to be unfair to me and pretend like he's not having feelings for his ex. All this came up when she told him that she started dating again. Now she's interested in some guy. He told me it never really occurred to him that she would move on, too. Now, he's worried about losing her as a friend forever. I think he's jealous that she might get as close or even closer with someone else than she was with him (they dated for 3 years). When she's not interested in someone else, then he's not interested in her. But, now, jealousy has set in. I'm not sure what to do. Part of me feels like this is just natural. But, am I a fool for thinking he still wants me?

2006-11-20 12:04:48 · 7 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

he told me he would never make fun of me

2006-11-20 12:04:05 · 6 answers · asked by bsktball1993 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm pretty much retarded when it comes to things like these...So please help me?
At the begging of the school year (end of August), this boy used to look at me. So, when I found out I stared back. When he found out I was looking back, he stoped. And then I stoped.
Now I see him looking at me again. Just FYI, I've never met this kid before.

What exactly does this mean? Why won't he talk to me?

I know one of you is going to say 'go talk to him', but I'm afraid that the convo would be very awkward cosidering this staring-game has been going on for months.

2006-11-20 12:03:33 · 10 answers · asked by LAWLZ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 12:03:26 · 2 answers · asked by twister 2 in Family

2006-11-20 12:03:19 · 9 answers · asked by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 in Family

there is a guy i like and i dont talk to him.. but i see him quite often around school.. he bumps into me.. his friend is always staring at me... does that he likes me or thinks im weird

2006-11-20 12:02:49 · 12 answers · asked by Natasha 1 in Singles & Dating

I've pretty much concluded by her behavior that she has no interest in me or my son.
I call my mom to ask permission to visit and she always says 'NO I am only 20 minutes away!
this is especially hard for me around the holiday season
lately Ive thought about changing my # and not have to deal with her anymore..I'm sick and tired of begging her to be part of our lives....I was sad at first now I'm just angry.

2006-11-20 12:01:12 · 12 answers · asked by incoming03 1 in Family

I don't know what to say to boys

2006-11-20 12:01:11 · 7 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that black women find me attractive too but white women seem to me more aggressive.

Do white women want a mix baby or something?

My pic http://www.listentocharlie.com

2006-11-20 12:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sorry 2 keep reposting but i need a lot of ideas. I need some ideas for things to do with my little cousin. im 14 and shes 7. I am trying to find things that me and her would enjoy. It will be after thanksgiving if that helps with anything
I will also buy her a little something if it is cheap becuase I only have like 5 bucks but if its something she will like. I was thinking of a laser pointer.

2006-11-20 12:00:37 · 4 answers · asked by THE GRIM REAPER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1 in Family

on sat i went to see my boyfriend. I told him i had 10 mins b4 i hada be home. Then 6 mins later he begs me to get toco bell he thtows a huge ***** fit cuz i wont get it. THne jus leaves no i love u no kiss nada. he never called the next day.. so he called today n tole me he needs to talk to me in person. then called bac n said i love u.. so finally at 6 i went to go see himin burger king cuz he works near there. winds up he tells me he needs time apart becuase he doesnt wanan cry anymore and like he doesnt want him to have a broken heart later so he wasnts us apart fer like a month.. what? i dont understand? n i was ok just tell me exactly and hes like i love u i want u for everthing in my life but he needs time? n i got tearny eyesd n so did he.. n everytime i jus tried to leave n stuff he wud liek grab me n bring me bac to him so wen i fianlyl said bye n took him arms off me he was like sad and mopped away. n he knows im mad like why wud he do this n stuff?

2006-11-20 12:00:20 · 2 answers · asked by Gaga <3 2 in Singles & Dating

Well.. I have this REALLY good friend. I used to like him a lot more than just friends. He's been moving around a lot lately. Back and forth because his parents don't really have it together.. But anyway, he told my friend that he really likes me and well, it got to me. He's also moving back to my town in a few days. I'm not really sure what to do.. because if I say no to him i'm missing a great guy.. Yet, I really started liking being single.

I'm not really sure what to do at this point. What would you do? I think I just need some guidence. Theres no way I am going to lead him on. I just wanna get that feeling again that I used to have for him
.
Oh also, he tells me secrets and stuff. Like, I don't know. I feel that he really trusts me. (when I say he moves back and forth a lot. When he moves it's like 20 mins away.) He calls me like every day or every other day.

what do you think would be a good choice for me?

2006-11-20 12:00:13 · 8 answers · asked by Hil<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been single for about a few years, have been in no relationships, basically becoming celibate. Im not actively looking because I dont have much of a vehicle and I have a sense that women wont care much for a man without a car. Im not shallow, but I feel I am attractive(or at least easy on the eyes...). I have good conversational skills, even though Im more of a listener. And I have a job that pays fairly well. So please tell me, in what way should I have hope if I see no one for my future?

P.S: Im a heterosexual, 20 year old male. (Just so there's no confusion about my person) also.....NO religious answers please. Im already a God loving Man.

2006-11-20 11:59:58 · 10 answers · asked by AJAY 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and I keep on thinking about leaving him because I want what I see in the movies. But I don't wanna leave him at the same time...I don't know what to do. He's always been there for me, never did anything to hurt me, I just don't know what to do.

2006-11-20 11:59:34 · 7 answers · asked by tinaveira 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this gril but I can never talk to her. I try to say hi but she is usualy talking to her friends or doesnlt notice me. what should I do?

2006-11-20 11:58:55 · 5 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I use to like this guy and, he thought we were really close, but now I rellize how dumb I was to eveer have liked him... he told me that he loved me via email and I wrote back I love you too on it. Now I feel stupid and dumb because I relize I hate him......BAD. He is just so weird and he gets mad at someone id they call his chiwaawaa named tinker bell gay...he even spreads rumors. I broke up with him because I relized I hated him... I mean every time I look at him I want to bargh becaue I said I love you to HIM! I want to get the message across easy but I dont know how.......

2006-11-20 11:58:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do 14 year old skater guys like girls to wear?

2006-11-20 11:58:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend has many issues with managing her anger she tries taking it out on ppl but then she loses her frnds. so one day she tried cutting her self not that but she smokes too. the girl is only 13 and i am trying to help her i dont let her smoke near me and if i c cigeretts in her purse i take them away from her but she doesnt care i need help getting her to stop because obviously she dont listen

2006-11-20 11:58:36 · 9 answers · asked by crystal 2 in Friends

Is there something that someone told you that changed how you felt about them?

2006-11-20 11:57:39 · 2 answers · asked by Chula 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well this boy really interest me and he is the only boy that i will probably like in my school.
When my friend asked him if he wanted to go with me he said
" she is pretty and all, but we are better off friends because i dont want to go with anyone in the school because once i go with a girl her friends are always in our buissness and i dont like that. "
i just want him to know my friends wont be in our buisness and he should at least give me a chance. wat should i do or say to him?
please do not say move on with your life and leave him alone

2006-11-20 11:56:09 · 11 answers · asked by unknowngurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I was going to ask a girl I really like to homecoming, but she wouldn't let me. She kept avoiding me. She even hung up on me when I called her to ask her. I know she knew I was going to ask her, but she wouldn't let me ask her. Why didn't she just answer me? Why wouldn't she let me ask?

2006-11-20 11:56:07 · 5 answers · asked by Cody R 1 in Singles & Dating

this cute and sexy girl is always smiling @ me does that means she likes me or just greeting i like her but i don't wanna approach her and have myself to blame what should i do

2006-11-20 11:55:56 · 21 answers · asked by marvellousdiva 1 in Singles & Dating

K, well my girlfriend has been raped by her dad, she has told her mom who thinks she is only saying it to get attention, she told me and she made me swear to god that i wouldn't tell anyone, i think it is getting worse and i need to get her to tell someone, anyone, who will help. She won't tell because she doesn't want them to a) take her or her sister away from her mom. b) get taken away from me. C) fear it will just make things worse. I need to get her to tell someone... i don't know what to do, i'm scared to death for her and want the best for her, but i don't know how to get that right now, will some one just help me think of something please...?

2006-11-20 11:55:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really hate my dad because he teases me about watching too much T.V, i can't help it if i like T.V i just love watching my favourite T.V shows and movies, the main reason why he teases me is because all the things i watch he thinks is rubbish, even my mum thinks so but she doesn't give nasty comments i don't want to hear like my dad does, all i want my dad to do is to leave me and my T.V alone and no comments as well he always likes to ebbarras me in front of my friends when having sleep overs, he walks in and says "So what's this rubbish your wathing?" and every time i say something to defend myself dad thinks i'm giving him cheek! i mean what am i suppose to do? just sit there and let him throw nasty comments in my face!! no i wont i will get up and say to my dad "Dad shut up I said it once and i will say it again stop it with the comments!" I'll bet i will get in trouble after that! but i will feel good after doing it my dad needs a really good spanking does everyone agree with me

2006-11-20 11:54:25 · 12 answers · asked by Mary Alice 2 in Family

OK get this i liked this girl for a while and my best friend started likein her to and then he went and asked her out behind my back and didnt even bother to mention to me that they were dating. after that i just hurt like a kick in the head so that night i told her how i felt and now shes confused and dosent know who to choose and its been about a month now and whenever i ask her about it she just cries and gets mad. also my best friend is just becoming a dick head hes always lieing and rubbing it in that he goes out with her and not to mention its his first girlfriend and hes 16 so yeah hes cool. And l8ly my head has just been totally messed up so yeah does ne one have ne advice for me or can tell me the best way to go about cause im at a point now were i dunt care who she chooses cause its way to frustrating to be always thinkin about her but i really do like possibly even love her so yeah thnx to ne one who answers this :)

2006-11-20 11:54:20 · 13 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I don't get it. I was going out with this guy who was seriously pursuing me. Things were wonderful. Then for about 3 weeks (while our cellphones were off due to the bill being high) we did not speak on the phone but I made sure that I e-mailed him and I even sent a snailmail letter to him (really cute and girlie). I got nothing from him but one e-mail that was very rushed. Once the phones were back on he was a different person, non communicative and distant. When I asked him what was up he said nothing and everything that he said were things that woudl have made me upset or caused us to breakup but I did not budge. Then he would not return my calls. He went from not letting me get off teh phone to not even answering.

I think I need an answer from another guy because the answers I am getting from my friends (girls) are just confusing me more. And he won't tell me why he started acting all funky....I broke up with him because his attutude changed without warning.

2006-11-20 11:53:59 · 4 answers · asked by GretchenS 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you guys tell me if I should (tomorrow) while walking home with my boyfriend to just hold his hand out of nowhere or would you rather do it yourself? I'm 13 and this is my first boyfriend. Thanks!!

2006-11-20 11:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

So the guy I had a 6-month relationship with found another girl. He told me he was confused because he loves her but he loves me still. How do I make him realize he loves me the most? Do I tell him I want him to be happy or tell him I want him? How should I act?

2006-11-20 11:53:18 · 4 answers · asked by coo c 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been casually dating for about a month and have only just recently made it official. I have met his mother twice briefly but it will be the first time I meet his four siblings: three sisters and one brother. They call the night "Family Fun Night" and they play various games, which apparently get very intense. Because I am a year and a half younger than my 18 year old boyfriend, who also happens to be the baby of the family, I'm very nervous to meet his sisters and his family and I feel that I should bring something to offer although his mother insists that it is unnecessary. Help please!

2006-11-20 11:53:16 · 4 answers · asked by Courtney 1 in Singles & Dating

there are these girls that i really dont like and i want to know how to make their lives a living hell

2006-11-20 11:52:35 · 16 answers · asked by Andrea M 2 in Friends