So the guy I had a 6-month relationship with found another girl. He told me he was confused because he loves her but he loves me still. How do I make him realize he loves me the most? Do I tell him I want him to be happy or tell him I want him? How should I act?
2006-11-20 11:53:18 · 4 answers · asked by coo c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My best advise for you is let him go, if he doesnt realize that he "loves you the most" all by himself, its no use trying to convince him. The best thing you can do is dissapear for a while, not answer his phone calls, not call him, not look for him, let yourself be missed and maybe just maybe, he will come back if in fact he does love you the most. But realize, that you and him only had a 6 month relationship. If you had told me years or something it would be different, but months,,,,,,,that usually means he didnt love you to beging with.
2006-11-20 11:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Yahoo User 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" anyone prefer you over another person. This guy must follow wherever his heart leads him while you just continue being your own true self and hope that you are the one his heart desires.
2006-11-20 11:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw him! (Not literally.) Focus on yourself and find out why you want someone who doesn't want you. Work on improving your self-esteem. Once you are strong and confident, he will want you back. But, by then you will be way over him and won't waste your time with such a low-life scumbag! :)
2006-11-20 11:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by MT Hammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. there are more guys out there you could find. why bother with this one? He makes you much more depress.
2006-11-20 11:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋