my friend has many issues with managing her anger she tries taking it out on ppl but then she loses her frnds. so one day she tried cutting her self not that but she smokes too. the girl is only 13 and i am trying to help her i dont let her smoke near me and if i c cigeretts in her purse i take them away from her but she doesnt care i need help getting her to stop because obviously she dont listen
2006-11-20 11:58:36 · 9 answers · asked by crystal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to tell someone. Talk to a guidance counselor or someone who will listen to see if they can't reccomend a good course of action. Good luck and I hope you're able to help your friend.
2006-11-20 12:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by too funny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "both of these things harm u & ur a really gd friend of mine.i dont want n/e thing 2 happen 2 u so plz stop.i kno u may not care but jus listen.i dont want sumthin like this 2 b the reason that ur health is not well.wen u get angry @ ppl talk it over w/ them.u may end up actually resolving the problem & b ok w/ that person afterwards.plz.ur a good friend of mine & cutting & smokin only ends ur life 2 soon but uve still got time.& while u do u need 2 stop cuttin urself...stop smokin & find better ways 2 manage ur anger & ill help u." u may be thinkin 'i really dont wanna help her cuz shes in 2 deep' but its not 2 l8 & u can show her many ways 2 let her anger out w/-out causing a commotion in n/e way.good luck.
2006-11-20 12:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell an adult that you trust such as a teacher or a guidence counselor because you can't handle this on your own. your friend is in trouble with the cutting and smoking and she needs help. she doesn't have to know that it's you that "told" if that's what you're worried about but if she does find out or you tell her she might be mad at first but she'll thank you in the long run because you are looking out for her well being. that's what a friend does and right now she needs a friend.
2006-11-20 12:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by Meaghan L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree you need help on this one from a trusting adult or counsellor. It looks like she is doing a cry for help and well done because you have recognised this. However for what ever reason she is doing these things wether it be problems in home life or school you cant make that dissapear.You can be there for her and with help of a counsellor get her some help in dealing with what ever is up.A true friend is one that sees your bad side an still sticks around and that is you.Good luck in helping her getting some confidence back in herself and dealing with her issues in different ways.
2006-11-20 12:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to help her, tell an adult you trust, and them tell her parents/guardian. She needs hlp so she wont ruin her life and regret it at this young age she can ruin her life forever unless you have one talk with an adult. SAfter a pareny has been told she could she a psychiatrist and take anger managment classes.
2006-11-20 12:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This female is easily no chum of yours. a genuine chum would not make exciting of you in front of your friends. Her little trick of imitating you and then giggling approximately it shows all of them that this is alright to giggle at you. Going after a guy which you like is her way of exhibiting you that she is more advantageous to you. that's no longer the act of a chum. You already say that her movements are stupid and stressful. maybe it's time to spend time with people who're no longer stupid and stressful and who surely such as you and recognize a thank you to be buddies.
2016-10-17 07:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell someone...get some other help..and adult or a councler or something...its not good...cutting herself and smoking is just bad anyways...and she might hate u for it..but..it show how much you really care about her
good luck!
2006-11-20 12:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a trusted adult about it. Please don't wait- if you do nothing, your friend could end up in more serious trouble!
2006-11-20 12:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by piratewench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell someone. a counselor or someone. they want to help - its what theyre there for.
2006-11-20 12:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by HK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋