OK get this i liked this girl for a while and my best friend started likein her to and then he went and asked her out behind my back and didnt even bother to mention to me that they were dating. after that i just hurt like a kick in the head so that night i told her how i felt and now shes confused and dosent know who to choose and its been about a month now and whenever i ask her about it she just cries and gets mad. also my best friend is just becoming a dick head hes always lieing and rubbing it in that he goes out with her and not to mention its his first girlfriend and hes 16 so yeah hes cool. And l8ly my head has just been totally messed up so yeah does ne one have ne advice for me or can tell me the best way to go about cause im at a point now were i dunt care who she chooses cause its way to frustrating to be always thinkin about her but i really do like possibly even love her so yeah thnx to ne one who answers this :)
2006-11-20 11:54:20 · 13 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also i doubt me and him can be friends much longer cause hes just bein a ****** ne way and everyone else thinks so to and also man i dunt wana just say **** the girl cause i really like her and well she didnt no i liked her till that night and well yeah id say i got further than him with her lol but thats not the point i think the only thing shes scared of is hurting someone but i dunt really give a **** ne more
2006-11-20 11:55:39 · update #1
OK like well this totally isn't like even a question. ok.
2006-11-20 11:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ...it is time to move on!!! There are a lot of other girls out there...besides would you really want to be with a girl who is saying yes to one person and considering being with another????
Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants.
Besides don't you see that as sneaky behavior???
How would you feel if she WAS your girlfriend and talking to some other guy about "yeah maybe I will go out with you" behind YOUR back. Sounds like she is wishy washy. Try to find a girl who really is into you. Not some sneaky little kid.
As far as your friend goes...he'll get his...guys who sneak like that always get what they deserve. Just wait and watch!!
2006-11-20 11:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! Patience it s virtue, there is a reason why this is said. Its hard I know but you will feel better, especially when you don't pressure yourself over it. And she will feel better because your not pressuring her either. SO STOP IT!
Get a grip. Nothing worst then a guy desperately trying to gain your affection by always coming to you, your going to scare her. So chill bro.
She knows what you want, give her time. Step back, occupy yourself with the good things you like. Very subtlely let her know what you are doing like "hey I'm going to the movies to see ..." or " I'm going to ..." but don't ask her to go. Let her decide. If she ask you if you are asking her, let her know you would like her to go but no pressure.
If she doesn't respond then she doesn't know what she wants, which mean you step back more and just let it go and continue occupying yourself with good things.
2006-11-20 12:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by lor3d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, thats a confusing mess. I'd say give her time to process this all, but dont push her. To me it seems that shes got enough already on her shoulders, and you dont need to be pressuring her. Let her make up her own mind. If they end up breaking up, then start talking to her and see how she feels about going with you. but if she decides to stay with him, then let it be. There are always other girls out there.
2006-11-20 11:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
o man, I know exactly what you are goin through. I loved this guy and he asked out my best friend. and then she was all "oh i love my boyfriend I am so lucky too bad ur not pretty enough for him"I was so frustrating. I just waited until they broke up... it took only a month, so separate yourself from them for a while, once you show ur friend that you dont care about this anymore, they will break up. give it time.
2006-11-20 12:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by strawberrydaiquiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confused: Is the competition for this girl, really worth your friendship? Your friend has beat you to the "punch" concerning this girl. She is his and you have to resign yourself to the fact. Don't bother to mention your feelings to this girl anymore. Take your friend aside and tell him that you are backing off and she is HIS ! Tell your friend to quit "rubbing it in" concerning her. Make sure you stay away from her and don't be around her and your Friend when they are together, as this will aggravate you. Find a girl of your own (take your time and find one who you really "dig").
Remember the rule of friends - no going after another guys girl even, when they break up. This will keep your friendship tight and sound. Good luck to you, "confused".
2006-11-20 12:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw your pal pal. he's only a jack ass for doing that to you. when you consider that he back stabbed you, why do no longer you walk away and vow to on no account help this piece of trash. close out touch thoroughly from him, if he desires something, supply him the finger and ignore approximately him. For the female, pssh ignore it, she choose for you or no longer. only circulate on and locate yet another stable looking chick extra extra suitable. there is often yet another female accessible you be attentive to?
2016-11-25 21:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by fahner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let this be a lesson to you
always go after a girl when you like them
a friend is always gonna cut you off if you dont do anything
and she wont wait around for you
2006-11-20 11:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all ignore ur best freind and the girl u like,wait 4 them 2 break up and then try 2 ask her out...best idea i got man
2006-11-20 11:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by abdullah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first get everything straight with your friend and tell him that you liked her before and if he not cool about it f**k him cuz obviously everyone thinking the same about him. You better fight for your gurl until you get her. that is if you really like her. good luck
2006-11-20 12:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by unknowngurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋