Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

i rescently moved to a new school.

i really like this guy in my class but he was my friends ex and a year younger than me............

during concert practise he really anyoyes me in the funny way , but i think it is kool. he teases me in the fun, kinnda way...........

he always looks at me.......................we always play this chasey thing in class.......



does he like me...................how can i tell if he likes me


can u give me tips on flirting

2006-11-20 12:26:52 · 3 answers · asked by aqua_pebbles12 1 in Singles & Dating

I was on the phone with one of my aunts tonight (we are actually very close in age) and we were talking about her and her husband coming staying with us for a few days during Thanksgiving. They were married a couple of years ago but they usually spend Thanksgiving with his parents so this will be the first time together with us. He got on the phone and told me how he was looking forward to coming down and seeing us and I told him that I was too! Anyways, then he said something about making some of his favorite recipes - a green bean casserole and some kind of homeade raisin bread. I was totally shocked because my mom told me whenever women were present men shouldn't cook. I told him that he didn't need to do that and we would take care of everything but then he said he insisted. I don't know what to do because I don't want to be a rude hostess but I don't want to be a bad one either. It just makes me feel so weird that a man wants to cook, you know? What should I do?

2006-11-20 12:25:52 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so i lost my i-pod at skool and then this girl that i hardly kno finds it for me wat should i get her or do for her to sho my thanx?

2006-11-20 12:25:11 · 7 answers · asked by Luis_F_R 2 in Friends

At the begging of the school year (end of August), this boy used to look at me. So, when I found out I stared back. When he found out I was looking back, he stoped. And then I stoped.
Now I see him looking at me again. Just FYI, I've never met this kid before.

What exactly does this mean? Why won't he talk to me?

I know one of you is going to say 'go talk to him', but I'm afraid that the convo would be very werd(ish) considering this staring-game has been going on for months and I know not one single thing about him or anything, really.

2006-11-20 12:24:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....automatically imply to you that Mr. Whomever is interested in you?

2006-11-20 12:23:48 · 18 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad's been cheating on my mum for about 2 years and it's killing me and my mum! My younger sister doesn't know, i'm 17 and finding it hard to cope with it as they argue all the time and my dad doesn't feel guilty at all and sees my mum as an annoyance! I hate him but I have to put up with him doing this with a selfish bottle blond b##ch who has apparantely been shunned from her church cos of it - my dad's hardly attractive! He's 61 and she's about the same age as my mum, he doesn't see why I should care about it, he's completly heartless! How can I make him feel guilty?

2006-11-20 12:23:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Just curious. Me and the gf have hit a little rough patch here (I'm not giving up on anything yet, and I've been pretty damn good about handling myself) but now she's into some sort of game. I really don't even know if she's doing it consciously or not, but I'll play, but only for a little while. My question: anyone ever quit w/ the games b/c of a bf/gf they realized they wanted to be with? I have seen her genuine side and I want it back, but she's hiding it b/c she's scared of something.

And yes we've talked about this stuff. It's time to put up now, so I'll play a little cold shoulder/hard to get but then just drop my feelings on her one night one last time when I know I could walk away if I had to.

2006-11-20 12:22:57 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

A couple of months ago my cell phone disappeared out of my boss's truck. I informed everybody I work with that it was missing. Well last week his girlfriends friend came over. She asked him if he had spoken to "so&so" because he had stole her phone. He said yes and that he bought one with a 49ers case. I turned around and said that's my f-in phone (shock). Offer- I can buy it back for $25 (my boss gives her money everyday) but won't confront her (she will throw a fit and cause a scene). This woman was a heroin user for 30yrs. and recently got clean only she has traded her habit for meth. My boss has left his wife, I worked for 2/3 of the day yesterday (I Quit) he only paid me for 1/2. I told him okay since you won't pay me for what I worked then when he gets my phone back I'll be happy to give him his. He called me a thief, only I told him I'm not his girlfriend don't get us confused. Also she steals from the company for drugs. Am I wrong or is she just that good in bed?

2006-11-20 12:22:55 · 4 answers · asked by CarizmaAngel 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like I am made to give my hubby oral sex. He knows before we got married that I really didnt care to do this? However, If I really get in the mood I will do it. But lately I feel like he is making me do it! He enjoys doing oral to me, I told him it doesnt bother me if he doesnt want to do it! That I would understand but he says he LOVES doing it to me. Lately when he gets done doing it to me he brings hisself to my mouth (his private part) & pushes my head towards it. I have talked to him about this & told him that when he does this it makes me feel like I am being mad to do it. He said, he shouldnt have to do that to get me to do it. But if thats what he has to do he will. I told him I would like to do it on my own when I am in the mood to do it rather then feeling like I am being made to do it. Do you think I am over reacting? Should I be feeling like this? I have been up front with him from the being, that I didnt like doing it all the time, before we were married,

2006-11-20 12:22:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How many of you find it a turn-on to fool around in public, where there's the chance you might be seen/watched?

2006-11-20 12:22:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mom is hiding foods from me for my younger siblings to eat. when i cook, i cook for my whole family to eat. but when mom cooked, she is being greedy to me. looks like she don't really want me to eat at all. but i am not a big time eater, i don't get why mom is being like this to me. so is this right for my mom to be doing this? i mean i love her and i always give her money and cook and clean ......what'sup with her?

2006-11-20 12:22:04 · 7 answers · asked by friendly_nice_girl 1 in Family

What age do you think it's right to become sexually active with a boyfriend?

2006-11-20 12:21:45 · 29 answers · asked by Nena 2 in Singles & Dating

Please HELP ME!!!!!!
omg! there's this dude and were like really good friends and everything. Tho, the problem is: he's OBESSED w/ me!!!! and i don't feel the same way! i jus lyk him as a friend. and he's asked me if i'd go out w/ him a million times and i've always sad no. But it's like he doesn't understand the word "NO~!" i don't know what to do. any suggestions????

2006-11-20 12:21:43 · 20 answers · asked by [(bREeZiE_bABy)] 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you get married or ask someone to marry you if you knew you weren't completely over someone from the past?

2006-11-20 12:21:10 · 12 answers · asked by lc 1 in Weddings

ok well i met this guy at church that is 19 while im 16 about 2-3 months ago and we clicked. we went out a few times but we never went "official". we just both knew we liked eachother. Well last month he moved to colorado, while im in california. I have no doubt he is staying faithful but im having a hard time not liking other people, my age, that are local. I really like this guy ALOT! but im starting to like other guys! what should i do?

2006-11-20 12:20:45 · 10 answers · asked by Kim P 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm just new at this my space
and i need some friends...!

2006-11-20 12:20:40 · 6 answers · asked by scandalous51 3 in Friends

2006-11-20 12:20:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 12:20:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I talked to my brother & he said yeah, uncle hit him a few times, but nothing major... I told him any kind of abuse was major...

Then I talked to the other brother who told me he hit him more then a few times... (the adoptive brother from the abusive past)... I think that he's hiding something else, very painful, though... I talked to the police but they said that I would have to have the "victemS" -- yes the victems -- come wih me and make a statemnt! Any advice on getting my brothers to talk to the cops?

2006-11-20 12:19:38 · 10 answers · asked by I think... 6 in Family

2006-11-20 12:19:32 · 8 answers · asked by LOL! 1 in Friends

Theres this girl that i am in love with, we kiss all the time, we go to the movies or someones house every weekend we stay after school and get as far as we can..... i just dont want to lose our friendship by going out cuz i know if we break up we will hate each other forever what should i do

2006-11-20 12:19:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 12:19:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to mature over night?

2006-11-20 12:19:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At the begging of the school year (end of August), this boy used to look at me. So, when I found out I stared back. When he found out I was looking back, he stoped. And then I stoped.
Now I see him looking at me again. Just FYI, I've never met this kid before.

What exactly does this mean? Why won't he talk to me?

I know one of you is going to say 'go talk to him', but I'm afraid that the convo would be very awkward cosidering this staring-game has been going on for months and I know not one single thing about him or anything, really.

2006-11-20 12:18:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...like me, i liked her, etc. Now when i went to ask her out, she said No and that she wanted to be friends. so i respected that......now 2-3 years later, she asks me to come over to her place. we chill all nite and than she laid on me. So im like "okay, whats goin on cuz she said she wanted to be friends". So i went with it......i touched her *** and stuff, the usual, but i did not kiss her cuz i respected what she told me years ago, haha. AND she still says im her best friend and stuff. So the question......what the hell is this gurl doing, and what do YOU ALL think i should do? Personally, i wanted to be with her for a year after she said no....soooo its kinda like i want to seduce her or sumthin...opinions pleez even though this happened along time ago, i just like psychology and often wonder "what if"

2006-11-20 12:17:56 · 6 answers · asked by Tray Augustus 2 in Singles & Dating

My Hubby and I got into an arguement because he slapped my daughter's hand over something I thought was stupid. We got into a huge arguement and we both began to yell at each other. I told (yelled) him that he went overboard. I never told him anything disrespectful or hurtful. He on the other hand did. He told me to shut up, called me a few things, and brought up stuff from when we were seperated last year. He's been sleeping in another room out of choice and will not talk to me. I tried talking to him but he gives me his back and won't really respond to me. I tried to tell him how I feel. I explained to him that he was acting like he did before we seperated (cold & w/o showing affection). He has too much pride and makes up excuses. I don't know what to do at this point. He won't go to counceling so thats out of the picture. It's been three days now.

2006-11-20 12:17:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to get something that will put a huge smile on her face when she sees it... i dont know what to get or do though... :/ please help...

2006-11-20 12:16:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Should I tell him how I feel about him moving, or should not tell him at all????

2006-11-20 12:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by A C 1 in Family

I need som help here. I met a girl at a football ga and i like her a lot. an their's a girl in seaford ballroom dancing class who's supposed to b my partner. the girl at the football game really likes me and my partner in the ballroom dancing class really likes me but i never met her personally. i probably like the kool girl at the footbal games better, but i'm not totally sure. the one at the football games isn't a cheerleader or anyhting special, but really pretty and smart. while the othe girl i never even met b4. can somone help me make a choice?

2006-11-20 12:16:07 · 5 answers · asked by chris b 1 in Singles & Dating

How to become a good model as a Filipino teacher? What can I do to myself will become a good person to my community?

2006-11-20 12:15:12 · 1 answers · asked by maganda 1 in Singles & Dating