Please HELP ME!!!!!!
omg! there's this dude and were like really good friends and everything. Tho, the problem is: he's OBESSED w/ me!!!! and i don't feel the same way! i jus lyk him as a friend. and he's asked me if i'd go out w/ him a million times and i've always sad no. But it's like he doesn't understand the word "NO~!" i don't know what to do. any suggestions????
2006-11-20 12:21:43 · 20 answers · asked by [(bREeZiE_bABy)] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move and change your phone number before he becomes a stalker. J/k I would say that you should just be firm when you say no and don't try to soften the blow by being nice about it or he will think that he will change your mind. If he really is a great friend he will back off, real friends only want the best for you and won't pressure you into something that you don't want. Be polite but honest with him and respect that your rejection might hurt him for awhile and the friendship might change some but time will heal and life will give him his soulmate.
2006-11-20 12:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by mountaincutie1178 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, us guys are stubborn and when we see a girl we like we go after that girl no matter how many times she says no. I don't do this. I was never totally crazy for a girl. If you don't like him just tell him next time he ask you out. DONT BRING IT UP YOURSELF. Tell him that if he doesn't stop you will no longer be his friend. If that doesn't work then someday when you two are hanging out together casually mention that your 29 year old cousin is getting released early from prison and he's coming to see you. And if that doesn't work just leave another message. I'll get to it.
2006-11-20 12:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Elu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you aren't going to be able to be friends with him if he can't stop asking you out. Let him know that there is no way you want to be with him as a boyfriend you are just looking for a friend. If he can't stop then you shouldn't be friends with him you don't want to make him think you are leading him on or anything, guys can be stupid like that.
2006-11-20 12:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u guys are friends and he wants to take it to the next level. make it clear " were friends just friends and only friends" or if it doesn't work than make sure you tell him face to face don't send friends or anything or he thinks your playing hard to get! You set the rules and nobody can change u
From Kimmy
2006-11-20 12:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kinda twisted but one of my friends has done this, you could talk to his friends and find out what really ticks him off and what he dislikes and start doing some of these things that offend him, he should back off eventually...
2006-11-20 12:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by eternity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should sit and talk with him and make him understand that you only like him as a friend before thing really get out of hand he probaly like alot more than you think i mean CRAZY love
2006-11-20 12:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by kayia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have asked you a million times and you may have said no a million times. It only takes once.
cut off all relationship with him. be firm!
2006-11-20 12:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by G-Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be cruel to be kind. Cut him out of your life at least for a while until he understands. Or, you could try going out w/ him just once and see how it goes.
2006-11-20 12:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Stacye S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that u dont feel the same way and he should stop asking u because every time you'll say no
2006-11-20 12:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont talk to him anymoe and cut off all ties. He may think you rae leading him on by still talking to him.
2006-11-20 12:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋