Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

I met someone online and we're both very much in love with one another. She is 10 years younger than I am, but we look great together. I am no longer in love with my wife, long before I met April (not her real name). How can I tell my wife that I no longer have any feeling for her ? I have been neglected because of her gambling problem. Lots of time, I slept alone (at least 3 or 4 days a week). I have found new love. Should I just pack and move on ?

2006-11-20 12:47:18 · 39 answers · asked by dn.dan_6575 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 12:47:17 · 8 answers · asked by kal-el 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex sent me a text friday saying "im sorry things didnt work out, im stupid, thought it was worth trying" we talked a couple weeks ago and he said that he needed space as he was going to try at his failed year old relationship again. does this text mean it worked out? or not? he then wrote me saying (on sunday) can we watch a movie? whats up with this guy???

2006-11-20 12:47:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have been friends for over 10 years, but only have kept in touch a few times a year. She has other friends she is closer to. Have tried to keep it going and we always get along, but just never seem to have time for each other. If she has time for her other friends, why cant she make time for me ? Maybe I am not as important to her as other friends. I can accept this but I am not sure if this is the case. She tells me she thinks about me all the time and we always say we will get together, but it just never happens. Should I just give up ?

2006-11-20 12:46:53 · 4 answers · asked by WUDDALIFE 2 in Singles & Dating

with many of my casual friends who are female,
i notice they like hanging out in groups but
they will not hang out alone with me.
i'm speaking of hanging out strictly as friends.
is this how most girls are?

2006-11-20 12:46:50 · 4 answers · asked by canuckclint 3 in Friends

Do they get more mad or sad?

2006-11-20 12:46:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

PLEASE HELP!

2006-11-20 12:46:03 · 4 answers · asked by scuder1002 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I like this boy right... He's perfect... my type and a football player. he's gorgeous except their's one problem. More like three. One he lives far away. Two I don't have much faith in myself. Three he's one year older than me.. I really want to be with him and he means the world to me. Did i forget to mention he's my best friend's older brother. (Innocent)

2006-11-20 12:45:49 · 4 answers · asked by Gi Gi 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so im kinda with this guy, but not officially. i really like him and i think he likes me a lot too. he said "i got mad love for you" lol. and i guess i believe it, but at the same time i have this feeling that he wants me to be a bootycall. like, we come from 2 different backrounds, and he even said it himself that i wouldnt really fit in with his crowd, and i understand that cuz i know he wouldnt fit in with mine all that much. but what i really worry about is the fact that he wants me to have sex with him sometime along the way, and i really am not ready for that, considering im 15, a virgin, and hes 17. im worried about all the consequences after sex, and he thinks im silly about worrying about that. We've known each other for about 3 months and i dont wanna waste my first time on somethin that might not last. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!

2006-11-20 12:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by Gina Marie :] 1 in Singles & Dating

It started with just internet porn in 96 and chatting to women online, followed by cybersex with 3 to 4 women every time he was able to get on since 98. I have three kids and no idea this was going on. I found him in 96 doing this and told him I couldn't marry him - he said it was just left over from college, no big deal - he didn't know it bothered me. All this time he has been lying to me, going to church (Catholic) and pretending to have this great family. I think I want to leave but I'm worried about the effect on my children. You should also know that I've had a life threatening illness for three years and the stress is not good for me - although according to a therapist, stress from divorce isn't so hot either.

He is seeing a therapist and swears he'll never do it again but he has estimated that he has had cybersex with about 4000 since 96. I never once cheated (in any way) or lied to my husband. I just didn't think that's what you did in a good marriage. Any thoughts...

2006-11-20 12:44:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I will be looking into buying an engagement ring within the next year, and was wondering what the average price is? My girlfriend is allergic to gold, so it has to be Platinum.

Also, im sort of confused as to how it works. I know I buy the engagement ring, but do I get the diamond on the engagement ring as well as the wedding ring? Do I buy both at the same time? Or do I have her pick out the wedding ring after we're engaged? So confused! thanks for the help!

2006-11-20 12:43:57 · 10 answers · asked by ivegotquestions 1 in Weddings

My marraige is in stasis right now because my wife feels she has lost the passion and excitement she felt for me the first few years we were married. She says she still feels it in the bedroom, just not when she glances at me throughout the day. Right now I am living at a freinds house, because my wife and I are seperated. She started seeing someone and had an affair while we were seperated. She said she felt what she had been missing with this man, but the affair is over, we have talked about getting counselling and getting back togetherbut she is uncertain she cannot those same feelings for me. But i want to know what is wrong with her? I am a fairly handsome, well groomed and muscular man, I always make sure my wife is well taken care of in the bedroom. I love her with all of my heart and I just want to know what I should do

2006-11-20 12:43:44 · 19 answers · asked by thunderchunkie1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 12:42:47 · 19 answers · asked by matt 2 in Friends

Sorry 2 keep reposting but i need a lot of ideas. I need some ideas for things to do with my little cousin. im 14 and shes 7. I am trying to find things that me and her would enjoy. It will be after thanksgiving if that helps with anything
I will also buy her a little something if it is cheap becuase I only have like 5 bucks but if its something she will like. I was thinking of a laser pointer.

2006-11-20 12:42:43 · 10 answers · asked by THE GRIM REAPER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1 in Family

My moms birthday is next thursday and i want to giv her something, but i dont have money,i´ve already made a card

2006-11-20 12:42:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-20 12:41:58 · 5 answers · asked by Baby 1 in Singles & Dating

so i have this friend, and i told her how much i like this guy, right? a couple days later he asked her out, and she said yes!!!i'm not even supposed to know, but 1 of my good friends told me. and i want to tell her why she's with him, but i can't because she'll get mad at my other friend who told me. what should i do???

2006-11-20 12:40:44 · 15 answers · asked by amarianiv 2 in Friends

the boy in third grade likes me to but i wont go out with him hes just so cute

2006-11-20 12:40:32 · 4 answers · asked by Ciara G 1 in Friends

So my birthday is coming up which will mean eight years single. ill be 21 but i really dont drink..anyway i cant ever seem to attract girls. im not bad looking see www.myspace.com/OHV and click pics. But ireally dont like to be single anymore. its depressing the heck outta me. i go outside try to fit in but it never seems to work.i dont think i can really go to year nine. Im really afraid ill do something rash. any way can someone help i am at the end of my rope wth being single. i dont see whats so great about it

2006-11-20 12:40:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think ther'ye annoying because they look like girls with their queer hair, they lack muscle and look like anorexic female models, and I could beat the crap out of anyone of them. I have beaten up some pretty boys because they thought they were so good. Ha ha. Think that kid Zac Efron. Oh, and I'm not jealous. I still get the girls. Very attractive girls. I just am annoyed so many guys out there are metro or queer.

2006-11-20 12:39:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've together for a short time but the holidays are coming up... what on earth do i get him?!

2006-11-20 12:38:24 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi I am 22, meteorology student, been six years in Chicago. I am looking to make some online friends. If you are interested please leave your email address and I will contact you or vice-versa. Answer this only IF you are interested. Otherwise dont bother and make a fool out of yourself, making me think that you dont understand english, because I had this problems earlier.

2006-11-20 12:37:50 · 5 answers · asked by billu_bhai 3 in Friends

Ok this game is harvest moon another wonderful life!!! Im sure you heard of it.Alright anyway i know you have to get married but i don't know who i should marry Marlin or Rock not Gustafa he's to of a hippy no offence to whoever likes him.Anyway please answer this????I know your dying to.......i think lol

2006-11-20 12:37:44 · 4 answers · asked by stacy_diva_girl619 2 in Weddings

2006-11-20 12:37:25 · 20 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

OR
"Dont smile cause you'll never know who's in love with your frown?
Which one do you agree more with?
Does frowning make a larger impact on your lover?

2006-11-20 12:37:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in high school and there's this one girl who I've known for 7 months. I love talking with her and just being around her in general, plus she's the first girl I've had the courage to talk to cuz I'm kinda shy around girls. At first we used to talk alot but now we talk occasionally. Our mutual friend told me that she feels that I'm not opening up to her and that I 'm still a little shy. I know that girls are experts when it comes to emotions so, ladies, how should i go about expressing my feelings to this girl and opening up to her?

2006-11-20 12:37:11 · 8 answers · asked by Being Myself 2 in Singles & Dating

MY BABYBOY IS GOING TO BE 2 MONTHS HIS DAD WANTS TO SEE HIM BUT THE ONLY PROMBLEM IS THAT THE GIRL HE IS WITH RIGHT NOW HATES ME AND SHE EVEN TRY TO RUN OVER ME WHEN I WAS PREGNANT SHOULD I LET MY SON SEE HIS FATHER LIKE FOR HIM TO TAKE WITH HIM OR SHOULD HE COME AND SEE HIM WHERE HE IS SAFE?

2006-11-20 12:35:43 · 21 answers · asked by lonelygirl200784 1 in Family

2006-11-20 12:35:21 · 9 answers · asked by Abner R 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend of 2 years and i know that he loves me but he doesnt do things for me like take me out or buy me gifts. he didnt even get me anything for my birthday, christmas, or valentines day. he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and i know its true but he acts like he has no ambition to commit to me, i have tried telling him that it hurts me that he doesnt show his love but he just says that thats just how hes always been, but arent i supposed to be different?

2006-11-20 12:34:54 · 8 answers · asked by $onya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy a lot, since the day we first met, and that's alot of years (1-11 yrs probably!). But I really don't know if one of my best friends like him too. She told me she did, then she didn't, but then she wanted to see him everyday and always started to talk about him. But he doesn't like her. She tries so hard, always trying to make me jealous, (yeah right!) and always trying to get his attention. Then she likes alot of guys at school which are like 5 or 7 guys! She's a flirt machion, seriously. She always tries to make me jealous and tries so hard, but doesn't succeed at all. So, here's the question, does she really like him? Does she really have feelings more than me? How can I find out, but not making it obvious? How do I know if he likes me?

2006-11-20 12:34:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating