ok so im kinda with this guy, but not officially. i really like him and i think he likes me a lot too. he said "i got mad love for you" lol. and i guess i believe it, but at the same time i have this feeling that he wants me to be a bootycall. like, we come from 2 different backrounds, and he even said it himself that i wouldnt really fit in with his crowd, and i understand that cuz i know he wouldnt fit in with mine all that much. but what i really worry about is the fact that he wants me to have sex with him sometime along the way, and i really am not ready for that, considering im 15, a virgin, and hes 17. im worried about all the consequences after sex, and he thinks im silly about worrying about that. We've known each other for about 3 months and i dont wanna waste my first time on somethin that might not last. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!
2006-11-20 12:44:21 · 5 answers · asked by Gina Marie :] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a friend (male) who felt pressured into having sex when he was seventeen. Your story sounds just like his. The lots of love and etc... He wanted to wait until he got married but because of the pressure. You have something to smile about. Wait, if he really has lol for you he will understand. Then if he don't stay, you will have your answer. Keep your head up. There is someone out there for you.
2006-11-20 12:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by pamelous1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I think first if he really respect you he won't pressure you into sex and if he is willing to wait until your ready then he may be worth staying with. So the best thing I can tell you is based on what you know about him make a decision or just give him some time to see if he really respects you. I agree your first should be your special one and if this guy can't wait I think you should find someone else.
2006-11-20 20:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by K.E. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like this ma, the guy doesnt respect your feelings towards the situation, meaning yes its a booty-call..look anytime a guy want to immediately have sex without consideration of your feelings, then he's your footstool. step on and walk past him. cuase the cosequences of sex are very dangerous especially since your only 15. even if you really like this guy you gotta choose, him for a 1 nite stand, or a baby that will ruin your future educationally, and he still gonna deny the baby?
2006-11-20 20:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Girl, leave that boy alone! He doesn't love you. All he wants to do is get in your pants! Trust me.
2006-11-20 20:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by Angelbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bootycall
2006-11-20 20:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by =] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋