so i have this friend, and i told her how much i like this guy, right? a couple days later he asked her out, and she said yes!!!i'm not even supposed to know, but 1 of my good friends told me. and i want to tell her why she's with him, but i can't because she'll get mad at my other friend who told me. what should i do???
2006-11-20 12:40:44 · 15 answers · asked by amarianiv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok first you need to ask her about it caz dat is so mean that you told her you like him and them she goin to say yez so obvious she is a bad friend caz she doesnt respect your opinions and then i mean she also did the right thing because i mean if he liked her not you dat is not entirely her fault b/c he cant change the way he feelz..but i mean just dont tell her who told you..and it waz wrong that you werent suppose to find out so bring that up when yall talk...but Gud Luck to you
2006-11-20 12:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lilsap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever let a guy become between friendships. In 20 years you may still be friends and laughing about it however do let her know that you do feel hurt and that it does make you wonder how much you should trust her...put the ball back in her court.
2006-11-20 12:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand the place your coming from! and my suggestion is to text textile him and tell him some thing like this: we've been texting for some days and that i could opt for to proportion my actual feeling with you and in case you dont experience the comparable.. then i'm hoping no longer something shall replace in our friendship.. what i could opt for to declare is that i honestly such as you and that i become questioning the way you experience approximately me that way.. some thing alongside the lines of that i could tell him or if greater tender for you..
2016-12-30 16:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to reveal your sources, most relationships are pretty public knowledge, anyway. The thing that is disturbing about your story is that she didn't talk to you at all before she started going out with him. Try talking to her and see how it works out, if she's sorry or conflicted about the whole thing. Also, put yourself in her position. It probably wouldn't be easy either.
2006-11-20 12:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell u honey but she isnt realy a friend or else 1 she would have said no and 2 she would have told u
2006-11-20 12:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no need to drag the matter to any level. The point is, he asked her out , he didn't ask you. The guy has made himself clear, and you are lucky to know. Just leave them alone.
2006-11-20 12:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know 1 thing for sure, if you really care for someone & you want to test thier morals, introduce him or her to all your friends & watch the **** hit the fan!
2006-11-20 12:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by rhombusrascal12000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes a good friend, she would know that u like him and she'd back off. if not then shes not a friend that u need
2006-11-20 12:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by Butt_Munch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really not nice. i think u should just talk to the girl he's going out with and talk it over with the guy. talking over it isn't too late
2006-11-20 12:43:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. He didn't ask you out and although its kind of not that nice that she didn't say no to him..... Why come between love?
2006-11-20 12:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Adelaide V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋